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Encouragement News Journal

I am starting a newsletter to encourage my sisters in Christ. I published my first book called Bible Truth Warrior Daughter in Christ. You gals can find my book on Amazon, iTunes, Barnes and Noble and you can get it on e- book.

Calm Phrases That Shut Down Rude People

If you’ve ever dealt with someone so rude that it caught you off guard, you’ll know how frustrating and harmful it can be. But you don’t have to match someone’s bad attitude to make your point. These phrases are like secret weapons, they’re polite, to the point, and they shut down disrespect fast.

  1. “Let’s keep this respectful”

Nobody likes being talked down to. This phrase is a way of calling it out without getting aggressive. It signals that the tone of the conversation isn’t okay and that you expect better. Saying it with a calm, steady voice lets you take charge without creating more tension. People often rethink their tone when you show them where the line is.

  • “I’m not comfortable with that”

There’s something incredibly grounding about expressing how you feel in a direct way. You’re not pointing fingers; you’re simply stating your own boundary. That’s what makes this phrase effective. It can be used in so many situations, and it gives you a clear out without needing to explain yourself. Most people don’t push further after hearing this because it’s so neutral but firm.

  • “Let’s take a step back”

Things can get heated quickly when someone’s being rude, and it’s easy to get pulled into it. Using this phrase lets you pause the moment and create a little breathing room. It puts space between you and the other person’s behavior without needing to argue or defend yourself.

In group situations, it can also help others recognize that something’s off. You’re basically saying, “Hold up,” but in a calm, grown-up way that invites reflection instead of conflict.

  • “I’d rather not continue this right now”

Sometimes the best thing you can do is walk away. This phrase gives you a polite exit without escalating the situation. It’s a clear signal that you’re not interested in arguing or taking on someone else’s negativity. By removing yourself, you take away their audience. It works especially well when someone’s trying to provoke a reaction.

  • “That didn’t sit right with me”

It might not seem like much, but this simple sentence packs a punch. It points out that something felt off, without sounding aggressive or accusing. It makes the other person reflect on what they said or did and usually softens the energy immediately. You’re not calling them names you’re calling attention to your reaction.

  • “I’m not okay with being spoken to like that”

You deserve to be treated with respect, plain and simple. If someone’s tone or words are crossing a line, this phrase spells it out. It leaves no room for guessing. Sometimes people test your boundaries just to see what you’ll tolerate. This is how you show them your limit. Keep your tone calm and confident, and you’ll be surprised how quickly people back down when they realize you’re not afraid to speak up.

  • “We can revisit this when things cool down”

Disagreements happen, but rudeness shouldn’t be part of the deal. If someone’s getting out of hand, you can press pause with this line. It doesn’t shut the door it just says, “Not like this.” You’re showing maturity and patience without letting them walk all over you.

  • “That’s not something I’m going to engage with”

Not everything needs a reaction. When someone’s clearly trying to get under your skin, this phrase stops them cold. It tells them you’re not here to entertain drama or disrespect. No yelling, no back-and-forth, just a clear refusal to take the bait. It works particularly well in text or email, too.

  • “You’re entitled to your opinion, but I disagree.”

Not every rude comment needs a comeback. Sometimes a simple statement like this is enough. It shuts down any attempt to bait you into an argument while keeping the door closed to further disrespect.

You’re making it clear that you won’t be swayed or silenced, but you’re not stooping to their level either. This is a great phrase when someone’s being snide, condescending, or just plain mean in a discussion.

  1. “Please don’t speak to me like that”

It’s direct. It’s clear. And it gets the job done. You’re not asking for permission, you’re stating your boundary. This phrase is especially useful when someone is raising their voice or using a nasty tone. By calmly saying this, you take the spotlight off their anger and put it on your expectation for basic decency.

  1. “I’m going to step away for a minute”

Instead of lashing out, try removing yourself from the situation. This phrase is a calm way to protect your peace without causing more tension. You’re not storming off, you’re just choosing space over conflict. It also gives the other person time to reflect on their behavior, and sometimes that’s all it takes for things to settle.

  1. “Let’s try to stay focused on the issue”

Rude people often veer off-topic to stir up drama or make things personal. Bring things back to center with this line. It reminds everyone what matters and makes it harder for the other person to keep up the behavior without looking petty. You’re not dismissing the person you’re just redirecting the energy to something productive.

  1. “That’s not appropriate”

Sometimes the quickest way to shut down rudeness is to name it. This phrase cuts through the noise without adding any fuel. It works especially well when someone says something offensive or out of line in a group setting. Saying it firmly, without emotion, puts the pressure back on them to rethink their words.

  1. “Let’s not go there”

Some people love to stir the pot, especially when it comes to touchy topics. This phrase gives you a smooth way to shut that down before it starts. You’re not asking for a debate, you’re signaling that you won’t participate. This works really well for rude jokes, passive-aggressive remarks, or loaded questions.

  1. “I think we need a break from this conversation”

When things get tense and unproductive, this phrase steps in like a timeout. It’s a healthy boundary that says, “This isn’t working.” Instead of getting pulled into someone else’s chaos, you’re choosing peace.

It also opens the door for a more respectful discussion later if you even want one. You’re not walking away forever, but you are choosing when and how to engage.

  1. “I hear you, but that was uncalled for”

Rudeness disguised as honesty is still rudeness. This phrase acknowledges the other person’s words without letting them off the hook for being disrespectful. It gives you a chance to keep the conversation going if needed, while still holding your boundary. Sometimes people don’t realize their tone or word choice was hurtful until you name it.

  1. We can continue this when you’re ready to be respectful”

When someone’s being difficult, this line draws a clear line in the sand. You’re open to continuing the conversation but only under the right conditions. This keeps the power in your hands without creating unnecessary tension. It’s especially helpful when someone’s being rude in a discussion that actually matters, like a work issue or a family situation.

EVENTS

  1. Book Signing on September 19th at 3-5pm at the Salkum Library
  2. Book Signing on September 20th at 10am-1pm at the Shelton Library
  3. Book Signing on September 25th at 12:30-2:30pm at the Lacey Library
  4. Book Signing on September 26th at 12:30-3pm at the Centralia Library
  5. Book Signing on September 27th at 2-5pm at the Randle Library
  6. Book Signing October 2nd at Noon-3pm at the Olympia Library
  7. Book Signing October 3rd at 2-5pm at the Elma Library
  8. Book Signing October 7th at 1:30pm-5pm at the Raymond Library
  9. Book Signing October 9th at 11am-2pm at the Chehalis Library
  10. I’m teaching at the Centralia Community College for the Fall quarter. If your interested sign up to the class on the college website. Starting on October 4th at 10-1pm. My other classes are Oct. 11th, Oct. 18th, Oct. 25th, Nov. 1st, Nov. 8th, Nov. 15th, Nov. 22nd and the last class will be on Nov. 29th. These classes will be on How to make Shower Scrubs, and my other class is on How to make Massage Oils of your own.

              HOW TO FIND ME

I will let you know when more book signings are going on.

I can be found on Spotify, my podcast (bibletruthwarriorwomen.com) also on Riverside. FM, my Blog called (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com) My news articles can be found on (carmenhansen@substack.com), Life Coaching site to schedule an appointment with me on (paperbell.me/bible-truth-warrior-women-life- coach). You can find me on (christianfaithpublishing.com), on my Author page to buy my book or read my Press Release.

          MY SOCIAL MEDIA SITES

On Facebook, Instagram, Telegram and Linked in.

        BIBLE TEACHING CLASSES

Please Check them out. They have helped me get through this process of stepping out and be bold in Christ. I enjoy Women of Faith classes, Proverb 31 Women classes.

          LIST OF MY BUSINESSES

  1. Carmen’s Visual Effects store #1 and #2 on my Blog at (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com). I make all kinds of body products such as body butter, massage oils, body scrubs, lip and cuticle butter with mango butter etc.

There is a way to buy the body products online or call me to buy. Take a look if you’d like. It’s always good to care for yourself.

  • You can find my Artwork in card form on my Blog called (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com).
  • I take photos of nature and animals. I’ve been doing this business for a long time now. I am a birder.

Check out my new platform online called (paperbell.me/bible-truth-warrior-women-life-coach.com).

  • Bible Truth Warrior Daughter in Christ Book. I am selling my first book independently.

I am praying for you all! Thank you for subscribing to my newsletter. I hope that it will encourage you to know you’re not alone.

Women Who Tend to be Excellent Wives Share these Traits

In today’s world, where relationships evolve and traditional roles are questioned, a great wife is not someone who sacrifices herself in silence, but a woman who builds a relationship based on mutual respect, depth, and emotional growth. Women who tend to be excellent wives usually have a special combination of emotional intelligence, empathy, self-respect, and true commitment.

1. They know How to Listen Without Interrupting

They understand that listening with empathy strengthens the connection. They don’t rush to respond—they focus on understanding first.

2. They have Strong Emotional Intelligence

They recognize their emotions and express them with maturity. They speak when needed, pause when appropriate, and handle conflict without drama.

3. They Offer Support without Losing Themselves

They motivate their partner without controlling. They support goals and dreams while also pursuing their own.

4. They Care about the Little Things

Not because it’s expected, but because they know love grows in daily gestures a meal made with care, a comforting hug, or a thoughtful message.

5. They set Boundaries with Respect

They don’t accept everything. They know how to say “no” without shouting, teaching that respect starts with self-respect.

6. They Value Honest Communication

They prefer uncomfortable truths over silent distance. They understand that talking in time prevents emotional gaps.

7. They Don’t Compete they Collaborate

They’re not threatened by their partner’s success. They celebrate it. They know love isn’t a power struggle.

8. They Nurture their Self-Esteem

They don’t depend on their partner to feel valuable. They love themselves, take care of themselves, and show up as emotionally grounded women.

9. They are Faithful to Their Values

They don’t change their morals for convenience. Their integrity brings trust and stability to the relationship.

10. They Know How to Forgive but Don’t Forget the Lesson

They forgive with strength, not naivety. They learn from their experiences and grow wiser.

11. They Have a Sense of Humor

They know how to laugh with their partner, ease tension, and enjoy the beauty in everyday life.

12. They Don’t Cling to Control

They trust. They don’t obsess over monitoring or micromanaging. They give freedom because they understand that love thrives on trust.

13. They Believe in Love that’s Built, Not Assumed

They don’t idealize. They work. They know love is sustained through daily effort, and they’re willing to give what they expect to receive.

Proverbs 31:10-11

“An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain.”

Genesis 2:18

“Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.’”

Proverbs 12:4

“An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who brings shame is like rottenness in his bones.”

I want to share: You can buy my book on Amazon, iTunes, Barnes and Noble and in eBook and on christianfaithpublishing.com, on my author page.


Bible Truth Warrior Daughter in Christ

I hope this book will encourage you to realize there are other women who have gotten through the ugliest and come out of it in the name of Yeshua (Jesus). I am encouraging you not to give up. You will be touched by my words of comfort through life’s challenges. I pray this book will captivate you, and you will see Yeshua in every step I took in my life. Be that wild and free woman of God! I know you can get through anything, as long as you keep close to Him. When I say to be wild and free, it’s not to be restricted by the dogmas that are placed on us as kids. I am saying live your life with a boldness in Christ. I believe He wants us to stand up and stand firm in our resolve, with Yeshua there to be our rear guard. My life journey has been a rocky one until I found Yeshua (Jesus) when I turned twenty-seven years old. I praise Him for saving me. I know where I’m going, and I finally understand my purpose in this life. The brokenness in this life is our strength, remember, ladies? And Father God says He will use it for His good. I do believe that totally. To be wild and free is to be created as powerful women of God. What does that mean for you, beautiful women of the Almighty? We are all warrior women, daughters to Yeshua Ha Mashiach!

— Carmen Hansen

FUN/FAB FRIDAY        NEWSLETTER

I am starting a newsletter to encourage my sisters in Christ. I published my first book called Bible Truth Warrior Daughter in Christ. You gals can find my book on Amazon, iTunes, Barnes and Noble and you can get it on e- book.

ENCOURAGEMENT

Faith in Action

When we think about standing up for Yeshua, we recognize that our faith isn’t meant to be stagnant. Instead, we view it as an active component of our daily lives. It means putting our beliefs into action, not just in our private lives, but also publicly. In every situation and relationship, we carry our faith with us, and it should inspire us to act in ways that reflect our love for Christ. As we go through our day-to-day, we can shine as lights in the world, showcasing the love and values Jesus represents.

James 2:26

As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without deeds is dead.” – James 2:26

Galatians 5:1

“It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.” – Galatians 5:1

Philippians 4:13

“I can do all this through him who gives me strength.” – Philippians 4:13

Colossians 3:23-24

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward.” – Colossians 3:23-24

EVENTS

  1. Book Signing on September 19th, 3 to 5pm at Salkum Library
  2. Book Signing on September 20th, 2 to 5pm at the Chehalis Library
  3. I’m Teaching at Centralia College for Autumn quarter. Starting Oct. 4th from 10-1pm. Oct.11th, Oct. 18th, Oct. 25th, Nov. 1st, Nov. 8th, Nov. 15th, Nov. 22nd and the last class on Nov.29th On how to make Shower Scrubs and another class on How to Make Massage Oils.

HOW TO FIND ME

I will let you know when more book signings are going on.

I can be found on Spotify, my podcast (bibletruthwarriorwomen.com), also on Riverside.FM, on my blog called (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com), My news articles on (carmenhansen@substack.com), Life Coaching site to schedule an appointment with me on (paperbell.me/bible-truth-warrior-women-life -coach.com). You can find me on (christianfaithpublishing.com), on my Author page to buy my book or read my Press Release.

MY SOCIAL MEDIA SITES

On Facebook, Instagram, Telegram and Linked in.

BIBLE TEACHING CLASSES

Please check them out. They have helped me get through this process of stepping out and be bolder in Christ. I enjoy Women of Faith classes, Proverb 31 Women classes.

LIST OF MY BUSINESSES

  1. Carmen’s Visual Effects store #1 and #2 on my Blog at (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com). I make all kinds of body products such as body butters, massage oils, body scrubs, lip and cuticle butter with mango butter and etc. There is a way to buy my body products online or call me to buy. Take a look if you’d like. It’s always good to self-care yourself.
  2. (My Artwork you can find in card form on my Blog called bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com).
  3. I take photos of nature and animals. I’ve been doing this business for a long time now. I am a birder.
  4. I am a Certified Life Coach. Bible Truth Warrior Women Life Coaching. Call me at 360-880-4217 or on my email at (writercarmenhansen@bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com). Check out my new platform online called (paperbell.me/bible-truth-warrior-women-life-coach,com)
  5. Bible Truth Warrior Daughter in Christ Book. I am selling my first book independently.

I am praying for you all! Thank you for subscribing to my newsletter. I hope that it will encourage you to know you’re not alone.

Powerful Sayings of Jesus That Still Spark Debate and Reflection Today

Jesus of Nazareth spoke words that have echoed through centuries, challenging believers and non-believers alike. His sayings sometimes comforting, often challenging, and occasionally puzzling continue to shape our understanding of faith, love, and human relationships. These fifteen powerful statements from Yeshua still ignite conversation and deep reflection in our modern world.

1. Love Your Enemies

“Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you.” These radical words flip our natural instincts upside down. Most of us struggle even to be kind to people who annoy us!

Yeshua wasn’t suggesting we simply tolerate those who wrong us. He demanded active compassion toward them a revolutionary concept in his time and ours.

This teaching challenges us to consider: is true strength found in retaliation or in the courage to show love when it’s least deserved?

2. Judge Not

“Judge not, that you be not judged.” Few realize how frequently this saying gets misused in modern culture. The statement doesn’t prohibit all forms of discernment or moral evaluation.

Instead, Jesus warned against self-righteous, hypocritical judgment the kind that sees others’ flaws while ignoring our own. He followed this with talk of logs in eyes, highlighting the absurdity of our selective vision.

The challenge remains: can we evaluate behaviors without condemning people?

3. The First Shall Be Last

“Many who are first will be last, and the last first.” These words upend our status-obsessed world. Jesus repeatedly challenged conventional hierarchies, suggesting Yeshua’s kingdom operates by different rules.

The wealthy, powerful, and privileged might find themselves surprised by their standing in eternal matters. Meanwhile, the overlooked, marginalized, and humble could discover unexpected honor.

This saying confronts our ambitions: are we climbing social ladders that ultimately lead nowhere important?

4. Turn the Other Cheek

“If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also.” Far from promoting passivity, Jesus was teaching nonviolent resistance. In his cultural context, turning the other cheek forced the aggressor to treat you as an equal.

This wasn’t about becoming a doormat. It was about maintaining dignity while refusing to mirror an opponent’s violence.

5. The Rich Young Ruler

“It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter God’s kingdom.” This statement shocked Jesus’ listeners and still rattles us today.

After a wealthy man couldn’t part with possessions to follow him, Jesus highlighted how material attachment creates spiritual barriers. His hyperbole of the camel and needle emphasized the impossibility of divided loyalties.

The question lingers: what possessions possess us, preventing fuller devotion to higher purposes?

6. Blessed Are the Peacemakers

“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” Among Jesus’ Beatitudes, this one stands out for its active nature. He wasn’t blessing peace-lovers or peace-wishers but peacemakers.

Creating harmony requires rolling up sleeves and entering conflict zones with reconciliation as the goal. Jesus elevated this difficult work to family resemblance with God himself.

In our divided world, this teaching asks: are we contributing to fragmentation or actively building bridges between opposing sides?

7. I Am the Way

“I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” These words spark intense debate in our pluralistic society. Jesus made an exclusive claim about access to God.

Followers see this as beautiful assurance a clear path forward. Critics view it as problematic exclusivity in our diverse world.

The statement forces consideration: was Yeshua making an arrogant claim, or was he, as Christians believe, simply stating his unique identity and purpose?

8. The Greatest Commandment

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind. And love your neighbor as yourself.” When asked to identify the most important commandment, Jesus brilliantly distilled hundreds of religious rules into this dual love mandate.

He connected vertical devotion to God with horizontal compassion for others. Neither exists properly without the other.

The simplicity feels deceptive because fulfilling these loves demands our entire being. Do we compartmentalize our faith, or does it integrate all dimensions of our lives?

9. Forgive Seventy Times Seven

“Forgive not seven times, but seventy-seven times.” When Peter thought he was being generous suggesting forgiveness seven times, Jesus multiplied that number dramatically. His point wasn’t mathematical but transformational.

Kingdom people don’t keep forgiveness ledgers. They develop forgiving character that reflects God’s unlimited mercy.

This challenges our tendency to nurse grudges and keep score of wrongs. The question remains: have we accepted forgiveness while withholding it from others?

10. My God, Why Have You Forsaken Me?

“My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” Jesus’ cry from the cross reveals the depth of his suffering. Quoting Psalm 22, he expressed the anguish of divine separation—something beyond physical pain.

For believers, this moment represents Yeshua experiencing the ultimate consequence of sin: separation from God. He felt abandoned so we never would be.

His vulnerable question gives voice to human suffering and validates our own questions during dark times.

11. You Must Be Born Again

“You must be born again.” Speaking to Nicodemus, a religious leader, Jesus declared that external religion wasn’t enough. Spiritual rebirth a complete inner transformation was necessary.

This mysterious concept confused Nicodemus and still puzzles many today. Yeshua compared this spiritual birth to wind: invisible yet powerfully evident in its effects.

The saying challenges both religious and non-religious alike: is external compliance enough, or does authentic spirituality require heart transformation?

12. I Thirst God Running

“I thirst.” Among Jesus’ final words, this simple statement reveals his complete humanity. The Creator of oceans experienced desperate physical need.

Theologians note the irony: he who offered living water to others now lacked even basic hydration. This vulnerable moment connects Jesus to every person who has experienced deprivation.

Beyond physical meaning, his words suggest spiritual reality too his deep desire for connection with humanity, his longing for us even amid his suffering.

13. Let the Little Children Come

“Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them.” When disciples tried shooing away children as unimportant distractions, Jesus firmly corrected them. In a culture where children lacked status, his welcome was revolutionary.

He went further, declaring children exemplars of faith models for adults to imitate. Their simple trust and openness apparently demonstrated qualities essential for spiritual life.

This teaching confronts our achievement-oriented society: do we value productivity and status more than childlike receptivity?

14. Take Up Your Cross

“Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves, take up their cross, and follow me.” Jesus didn’t promise his followers comfort or prosperity. Instead, he invited them to a path of sacrifice.

His original audience understood crosses weren’t jewelry but instruments of death. He called followers to die to self-interest and embrace sacrificial living.

This counters prosperity-focused spirituality, asking instead: are we willing to embrace discomfort and sacrifice for something greater than personal gain?

15. I Am Among You as One Who Serves

“I am among you as one who serves.” After washing his disciples’ feet, a slave’s task Jesus redefined leadership. While worldly leaders lord authority over others, Yeshua embodied servant leadership.

His kingdom inverts power structures: greatness comes through humble service, Not Domination.

This revolutionary concept challenges both religious and secular leadership models. Are we seeking positions to be served, or opportunities to serve others? Do we have a relationship with Yeshua or just plain religious? I know I have a trusting relationship with my Lord and Savior, Yeshua Ha Mashiach.

About Couples Growing Old Together

As we get older, our love and bond often deepen. Many find comfort and strength in their faith, turning to the Bible for guidance and inspiration. The Scriptures offer beautiful verses that remind us of the joy and blessings of growing old with a partner. These verses can encourage couples to cherish their journey together, no matter the challenges they face.

Today, you will look at some heartwarming Bible verses that highlight the beauty of aging together. These verses celebrate love, companionship, and the promise of lasting relationships. Let’s uncover the wisdom these passages hold for couples who are growing old side by side.

The Value of Love in Aging

As we age, the bonds of love we share with our partners become even more precious. The scriptures remind us that love is enduring and powerful. Embracing this love allows us to navigate the seasons of life together, celebrating each moment hand-in-hand. In our relationships, we should reflect on how love matures with time, deepening our understanding of one another. It takes time and understanding. These verses will guide us in cherishing the value of love as we grow old together.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

This passage beautifully illustrates the nature of love. It teaches us that love is not just a feeling, but a choice we make every day. As we grow older, we learn to exercise patience and kindness more than ever. The journey we take together showcases love’s capacity to endure and thrive.

Song of Solomon 8:6-7

“Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame. Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot sweep it away.” – Song of Solomon 8:6-7

This verse paints a vivid picture of love’s power and strength. It reminds us that true love withstands trials and stands the test of time. Our commitment to each other should mirror the unquenchable flames of passion described here, which is a source of inspiration as we grow old together.

1 John 4:18

“There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” – 1 John 4:18

Ephesians 4:2

“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” – Ephesians 4:2

This verse highlights the essential traits of humility and patience in our relationships. Aging brings unique challenges, yet we must remember that humility allows us to support one another. Together, we can grow in love as we practice these virtues throughout our lives.

Romans 13:10

“Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.” – Romans 13:10

In our journey through life, we must remember that love seeks to do no harm. As we age, our ability to love should be a guiding principle, guiding our actions within our relationship. This verse reminds us how love shapes our behavior while simultaneously being a fulfilling force in our lives.

Growing Together Through Challenges

Life is filled with challenges, but growing old together strengthens our bond. In facing difficulties, we learn the true meaning of partnership and support. The Bible offers wisdom and encouragement, reminding us how crucial it is to rely on one another during tough times. These verses inspire us to embrace the growth that arises from overcoming obstacles together.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.” – Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

This passage captures the essence of partnership. Although life may present setbacks, we find strength in being there for each other. When we fall, having a partner to lift us is invaluable. Together, we can face life’s challenges and keep moving forward.

Philippians 4:13

“I can do all this through him who gives me strength.” – Philippians 4:13

In our journey as couples, our faith offers us strength beyond ourselves. It reassures us that with God by our side, we can overcome any challenge. This verse invites us to lean on that strength, which helps us work through the trials of aging.

James 1:12

“Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.” – James 1:12

This verse reinforces the value of perseverance. As couples, we face various trials throughout our lives, but the promise of blessings awaits us if we remain steadfast. Embracing these challenges together enables us to gain a deeper appreciation for the trials we overcome and the love that endures.

Isaiah 41:10

“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” – Isaiah 41:10

This promise reminds us that Yeshua is always present to provide support. As we navigate life’s challenges together, we are encouraged to remain fearless, knowing that He sustains us. This awareness helps us grow closer as a couple, fostering resilience in our bond.

2 Corinthians 4:16

“Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.” – 2 Corinthians 4:16

This verse speaks to the transformation we undergo as we age. While physical changes may occur, our inner growth and renewal are ongoing. As couples, we share this journey of growth, empowering each other to embrace changes with grace and resilience.

Celebrating Memories Together

As we age, the memories we create with our partners become treasures. Reflecting on our experiences fosters gratitude and appreciation for our relationships. The Bible encourages us to celebrate these moments, reminding us of the joy found in our shared history. These verses inspire us to honor and cherish our memories with lasting joy as we grow old together.

Psalm 77:11

“I will remember the deeds of the Lord; yes, I will remember your miracles of long ago.” – Psalm 77:11

This encourages us to recall the blessings in our lives. Just as we remember Yeshua’s faithfulness, we should also cherish the memories we’ve created with one another. Reflecting on our journey fosters gratitude and enhances our appreciation for the love we share.

Psalm 126:3

“The Lord has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy.” – Psalm 126:3

This verse invites us to celebrate the marvelous moments in our lives. Recognizing the great things God has done can inspire us to cherish our relationship deeply. Celebrating our joys together makes our bond stronger and reminds us of the love we share.

Proverbs 17:17

“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.” – Proverbs 17:17

This passage reflects the essence of friendship within our partnership. As we reminisce about our journey, we are reminded that our love should be steady and constant. Being supportive friends through the good and bad reinforces our connection as we grow old together.

Isaiah 63:7

“I will tell of the kindnesses of the Lord, the deeds for which he is to be praised, according to all the Lord has done for us.” – Isaiah 63:7

This highlights the importance of telling each other about the goodness we’ve experienced. Sharing our stories fosters strength in our connection and reminds us of God’s presence in our relationship. Gratefulness enhances the joy we experience with our partners as we continue to create memories.

Colossians 3:2

“Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.” – Colossians 3:2

This encourages us to focus on the rich blessings in our lives. As we recall our happiest memories, we should uplift each other by cherishing what truly matters. In this way, we can cultivate our love as we grow older, reminding ourselves that love endures beyond earthly concerns.

Faith as a Foundation in Relationships

Building our relationships on faith creates a strong foundation for growing old together. As we face life’s challenges, our shared faith can guide and strengthen us. The Scriptures remind us to trust in Yeshua and lean into our faith as a source of comfort and encouragement. These verses will help us strengthen our commitment to faith as we continue to grow together.

Philippians 1:3

“I thank my God every time I remember you.” – Philippians 1:3

This verse reminds us of the gratitude we can hold for each other. Reflecting on our faith and the growth it offers can lead to deeper appreciation. Recognizing one another’s influence strengthens the core of our relationship.

Jeremiah 29:11

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” – Jeremiah 29:11

This comforting promise assures us that God has a purposeful plan for our lives together. Embracing faith in the future strengthens our bond as we grow old together. With this confidence, we can trust that our partnership is rooted in Yahweh’s love.

Proverbs 3:5-6

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” – Proverbs 3:5-6

This verse encourages us to put our trust completely in God. As a couple, leaning on our faith enriches our relationship. Trusting in His guidance will lead us through life’s ups and downs, helping us navigate the twists and turns of aging together.

2 Timothy 1:7

“For God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power, love and self-discipline.” – 2 Timothy 1:7

This verse empowers us to shape our lives based on love and faith. As we age together, tapping into the strength God offers fosters resilience in our bonds. Embracing this energy paves the way for a fulfilling life and deepens our partnership.

Romans 15:13

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” – Romans 15:13

This provides a beautiful reminder of the hope God instills within us. As we grow old together, nurturing our faith fosters joy and peace. This enriching relationship with God allows us to flourish in our partnership, providing a solid foundation as we age.

Expressing Thankfulness in Our Relationships

Gratitude transforms our perspective and enhances our relationships. As we grow older with our partners, taking the time to express thankfulness creates a deeper bond. The Bible encourages us to appreciate one another actively, leading to stronger connections as we navigate life together. These verses remind us of the importance of gratitude in our journey.

1 Thessalonians 5:18

“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:18

This verse highlights the necessity of gratitude in all aspects of life. Practicing thankfulness helps us appreciate one another continually. As we express gratitude for our experiences together, it fosters a loving atmosphere within our relationship.

Colossians 3:15

“Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.” – Colossians 3:15

This verse reminds us that gratitude should flow freely in our relationships. Allowing peace to reign promotes harmony, making expressing thankfulness even more meaningful. Together, embracing gratitude nurtures our love as we grow old together.

Psalms 107:1

“Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever.” – Psalms 107:1

Recognizing and expressing gratitude for God’s goodness deepens our understanding of love’s endurance. As we age together, sharing our gratitude brings us closer, allowing us to reflect on the many blessings we’ve encountered in life.

Philippians 4:6

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” – Philippians 4:6

This verse encourages us to approach life with an attitude of thanksgiving. In our relationship, expressing gratitude promotes a positive atmosphere. Sharing our thankfulness helps to alleviate concerns and strengthens our bond.

Ephesians 5:20

“Always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.” – Ephesians 5:20

As we reflect on our journey, it’s essential to recognize how gratitude enriches our lives. Acknowledging God’s blessings fosters appreciation for the love we share. As we express thanks, we deepen our relationship as partners growing old together.

Enduring Love in Old Age

As we journey through life, the enduring love we cultivate with our partners becomes increasingly precious. The Bible contains verses that beautifully illustrate how love transitions into a deeper bond as we grow older, enriching our lives. These verses will inspire us to appreciate and hold onto that enduring love as we age together.

1 Peter 4:8

“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” – 1 Peter 4:8

This encourages us to forge deep connections in our relationships. Love is a healing force that helps us forgive and support one another. As we age, building upon this deep-rooted love keeps our partnership flourishing.

Colossians 3:14

“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” – Colossians 3:14

This verse stresses that love is the glue that holds us together. As we grow older, nurturing love among all virtues enhances our relationship’s depth. Embracing love’s power elevates our commitment and connection to one another.

Songs of Solomon 2:16

“My beloved is mine and I am his; he browses among the lilies.” – Songs of Solomon 2:16

This beautiful imagery reflects the intimate bond we share. As we age, the uniqueness of our love deepens our commitment to one another. Affirming this love magnifies the joy we experience in growing old together.

Romans 5:5

“And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” – Romans 5:5

The hope Yeshua provides fills our hearts with love. As we grow elderly, understanding that God’s love sustains our bond encourages us to treasure our relationship. Feeling this divine love helps us nurture our partnership in profound ways.

John 15:12

“My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.” – John 15:12

Yeshua commands us to love one another selflessly. This principle guides us in our relationship and nurtures it as we age. Practicing this love creates an enduring bond that stands the test of time.

Final Thoughts

As we reflect on these verses, it’s clear that growing old together is a beautiful journey, filled with love, support, and faith. These scriptures hold powerful promises and encouragement for us as couples. They highlight the strength of love, the beauty of shared memories, and the importance of faith and gratitude in our relationships.

Moving forward, let us strive to embrace these principles as we age alongside our partners. By cherishing our love and experiences, we’ll discover the joy that comes from nurturing our connection through the years. With Yeshua beside us along the way.

THE START OF SUMMER

So, here we go, I have to tell you all about what happened to my hubby two weeks ago. Well, you see he was having sleep issues and not sleeping well. He decided to buy an expensive mouthpiece to actually help him sleep better. Of course, the V.A sent him a sleep contraption, it looked like he was going to be Dark Vadar and travel to space with the hose, that looked like a space helmet. It looked like he would flout away. Plus, he didn’t like it at all. I could understand.

So, let’s see how I will tell you what actually happened. He was pressing into the mouthpiece that has a way to tighten and loosen with a tiny screw. He was holding the mouthpiece in his left hand and pressing into the tiny screw with a tiny screwdriver. My sweet hubby stabbed himself in the palm, between the thumb and index finger. Of course he pulled it out fast. Then he cleaned it as good as he thought he did. And then kept his hand above his heart to take down the swelling.

He waited two days and then I said we should probably get some antibiotics in case of an infection. Oh no! Not until we went to go visit his friends at the motorcycle shop. It took his friends to convenience him to go into the walk-in clinic. We went to the walk-in clinic. The doc there didn’t really help much. Not surprising.

After two more days, my hubby finally decided to ask me to take him the emergency room at the hospital. At 10:30 pm, I drove him to the emergency room. There was no one around but of course the doctors and nurses were nowhere to be found. So, about 45mins go by and my hubby’s hand is inflamed and hurting bad. We finally go into the room to see the emergency doc. He said you will need a CT scan and wait.

The doctor finally spent some time it took till 3:00 am before the doc helped my hubby. The doc did a little outpatient surgery. He numbed his hand a little bit and cut and cleared out the infection. My hubby had so much pain after the numbness went away. I’ve never seen my sweet husband go through so much pain before. It was so hard for me to watch. It took tell after 6:30am before the nurses gave him pain killers. Wow! I was so anxious and worried about his heart beating so fast because of the horrible pain.

He had to stay in the hospital for 4 nights, just for an accident. As we are getting older, I have noticed it’s been harder for my hubby and I to do things we used to be able to do for years. So, I will keep believing that Yeshua will make us new in His New Kingdom. I look forward to that day and I know my husband does too. Thank you for all of your prayers and care for us.

OUR PASSOVER FUN

Our Passover dinner celebration was small and quint this year. I was blessed to have everyone come to enjoy celebrating Yeshua (Jesus). As He is the Lamb of God. We celebrated with Josiah, my son there online celebrating too. My son wore his kippa and his tallit (Jewish hat and prayer shawl). He wore this to honor Yeshua at one of the most important feasts we celebrate.

We laughed, shared life stories and ate yummy food together. I was so blessed, and I know my husband was too. I know these days we’re living in are hard to gather people out of their normal routines. The sisters and brothers that did come, we are so thankful, and we were blessed by their smiles and kindness. Passover dinner celebration this year was fun for us all. And to remember our Lord Yeshua (Jesus) and what he did for us all.

MY LAST OCEAN TRIP UNTIL AUTNUM

My last time I was at the cabin in Moclips was in March. So, not long ago. I can’t go back tell September mostly because of the heat and there will be way too many people around for me to have peace and quiet, to write my next book.

I enjoyed my time there in March, it always feels good to get away by myself. So, I can think and walk the beach. I gathered some sand dollars, clam shells and driftwood. There weren’t many shells at that time. I sat on a huge log on the beach and dreamed of the new kingdom to come. And to be in Yeshua’s arms. I felt blessed the whole time I was there. I had found out my first book was about to be finished, finally.

I started to go on these ocean trips and write my books, right after my son moved away in 2023yr. I pray that I will be able to keep taking these trips. But if not then I know my Yeshua will bless me. I never thought I would like to be totally alone without my son or my hubby around. But I totally enjoyed it. I do like coming home after being gone for a week. I do miss everyone. I do believe Yeshua has given me a new way of thinking these days, as I’m getting older and wiser because of Him.

Inspiring Parenting Quotes 

Parenting can be challenging and overwhelming. Use these inspirational parenting quotes to keep things in perspective.

Although parenting is rewarding, there will undoubtedly be hard days and difficult times. Some of those especially hard times can be when your child misbehaves. Dealing with behavior problems can cause you to focus on your hardships or to forget about the joys of raising your children if you’re not careful.

Inspirational Parenting Quotes

It’s easy to get wrapped up in the day-to-day responsibilities of raising kids and forget to look at the bigger picture. The inspiring parenting quotes in this section are intended to remind you of the “why” behind parenting. They also are sure to bring a smile to your face when things get tough.

· “Sometimes, kids want you to hurt the way they hurt.”

· “If I had to make a general rule for living and working with children, it might be this: Be wary of saying or doing anything to a child that you would not be due to another adult, whose good opinion and affection you valued.”

About Discipline

Disciplining isn’t easy, but sometimes it’s the most loving thing you can do—provided you discipline with compassion. Here are some inspiring quotes that will cause you to think about your approach to discipline:

  • “When a child hits a child, we call it aggression. When a child hits an adult, we call it hostility. When an adult hits an adult, we call it assault. When an adult hits a child, we call it discipline.”
  • “If you have never been hated by your child, you have never been a parent.” —Bette Davis
  • “We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.” —Henry Cloud
  • “Where did we ever get the crazy idea that in order to make children do better, first, we have to make them feel worse? Think of the last time you felt humiliated or treated unfairly. Did you feel like cooperating or doing better?” —Jane Nelson
  • “Sometimes, kids want you to hurt the way they hurt.”

Loving Your Kids

Perhaps the greatest gift you could give your child is unconditional love. Check out these inspiring quotes on loving your kids completely and unconditionally:

  • “My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person: He believed in me.” —Jim Valvano
  • “Children need love, especially when they do not deserve it.”
  • “I may not be able to give my kids everything they want, but I give them what they need: love, time, and attention. You can’t buy those things.”
  • “Your kids require you most of all to love them for who they are, not to spend your whole time trying to correct them.” —Bill Ayers
  • “By loving them for more than their abilities, we show our children that they are much more than the sum of their accomplishments.” —Eileen Kennedy-Moore
  • “A child seldom needs a good talking to as a good listening to.” —Robert
  • “Encourage and support your kids, because children are apt to live up to what you believe of them.” —Lady Bird Johnson
  • “As your kids grow up, they may forget what you said, but they won’t forget how you made them feel.” —Kevin

Funny Parenting Quotes

There’s no doubt that parenting is hard, but letting it weigh you down is never a healthy choice. Instead, look for ways to lighten the mood and laugh. Research shows that laughter can relieve stress, lower blood pressure, and can even make it easier to sleep. Here are a few inspiring quotes to help lighten the mood when parenting responsibilities are weighing you down:

  • “Having children is like living in a frat house: nobody sleeps, everything is broken, and there’s a lot of throwing up.” —Ray Romano
  • “Anybody out there who is a parent, if your kids want to paint their bedrooms, as a favor to me, let them do it. It’ll be OK.” —Randy
  • “Say ‘no’ only when it really matters. Wear a bright red shirt with bright orange shorts? Sure. Put water in the toy tea set? Okay. Sleep with your head at the foot of the bed. Fine.” —Gretchen

When there’s an inspiring parenting quote that speaks to your values or reminds you of how you want to parent, keep it handy. Print it out and hang it on the fridge, make it your background on your phone, or write it on your calendar. Looking at a quote that reminds you of the bigger picture can help you manage your emotions on a bad day or during a trying time. Print out some scriptures on how to raise your child by Yeshua’s perspective.

If Your Husband Has These Traits, They’re a Keeper for Life

1. They Text You “Good Morning.”

A simple “good morning” text may seem small, but it says so much. It means you’re the first thing on their mind when they wake up, and they want you to feel seen and appreciated. Even if they started doing this because you mentioned liking it, that’s just as meaningful, it shows they listen and value what makes you happy.

2. They Send You Memes Just to Make You Smile and Laugh

Every meme they send is like a little message saying, “I’m thinking of you.” It’s one of those small, silly things that build connection and reminds you both that you’re each other’s mate. Sharing laughs over goofy jokes or nostalgic references adds a playful layer to your relationship that keeps things light and fun.

3. They Surprise You “Just Because”

Surprises don’t need to be over-the-top to be special. It’s the little things, like picking up your favorite snack or planning a spontaneous day trip, that show they’re paying attention. These moments remind you that they’re not just going through the motions; they genuinely enjoy making you happy.

4. They Ask What You Want, Instead of Assuming

Forgetting the stereotypical flowers and chocolates, they take the time to ask what actually makes you happy. A partner who wants to know your likes and dislikes is one who’s invested in your happiness. Thoughtful gestures based on what you truly want mean way more than generic gifts.

5. They’re a Pro at Communicating

Open and honest communication is key in any relationship, and they know how to express themselves without turning every conversation into a debate. You don’t have to teach them how to be emotionally available, they’re already there, ready to work through things with you like an adult. This makes navigating challenges so much easier. This can take a few years with Yeshua’s help and guidance.

6. They Like Your Friends (And Your Friends Like Them)

Ever dated someone who barely tolerated your friends? Not fun. But if your hubby genuinely enjoys spending time with the people you care about, that’s huge. It shows they’re willing to merge your worlds and respect the relationships that matter to you. Bonus points if your friends are asking when they’re coming around next.

7. They’re Not Afraid to Take Emotional Risks

Whether it’s saying “I love you” first or being open about wanting to meet your family, they don’t wait around for you to make the first move. A hubby who’s upfront about their feelings and isn’t afraid of vulnerability is someone who’s in it for the long haul. It shows they value you enough to take those risks.

8. They Know How to Adapt and Grow

Nobody’s perfect, but self-awareness goes a long way. If they’re willing to acknowledge their flaws and work on them, that’s gold. Being with someone who can adapt, learn, and grow alongside you means the relationship has room to evolve without unnecessary drama. It’s a sign that they’re invested in making things work.

9. They’re All in When It Matters

When life throws curveballs, they’re there not just when it’s easy but when it counts. Anyone can be a fair-weather partner, but someone who sticks around during the rough patches is showing you that they’re truly committed. It’s those moments that reveal their character more than any romantic gesture ever could.

10. They Prioritize Your Happiness Without Losing Themselves

Being thoughtful and caring doesn’t mean they lose themselves in the process. A great husband knows how to support you and lift you up while also taking care of their own needs. Balance is key, and if they’ve figured out how to prioritize you while staying true to themselves and have a relationship with Yeshua, that’s a relationship worth investing in.

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11. They Take Your Achievements Seriously

Nothing’s more frustrating than sharing your big win only to have it met with a half-hearted response. A keeper is genuinely excited when good things happen to you and doesn’t try to make it about themselves. They celebrate you wholeheartedly, showing that your success is as important to them as it is to you.

12. They Handle Differences with Respect

Disagreements are inevitable, but how they handle them makes all the difference. If they approach conflicts with a calm demeanor and seek solutions instead of simply “winning,” it’s a sign of emotional intelligence. Relationships aren’t about always seeing eye-to-eye, but about how you navigate the moments when you don’t.

13. They Value Your Input

Whether it’s a major life decision or picking out a movie, they genuinely want your opinion. This isn’t just about being polite; it’s about recognizing that your thoughts and feelings matter. It shows that they see you as an equal partner in the relationship and value your perspective.

14. They’re Not Afraid to Be Silly

Life can be serious sometimes, but they know how to bring out your playful side. Whether it’s cracking ridiculous jokes, dancing around the living room, or having inside jokes that only you two get, they’re not afraid to let loose and be silly. It’s a reminder that love should be fun and full of laughter.

15. They’re Willing to Put in the Work

A lasting relationship isn’t built on grand gestures alone. It’s about the everyday effort they put in to make you feel loved and secure. If they’re willing to have tough conversations, make compromises, and put in work to grow together, you’ve got a partner who’s truly worth holding on to.