Have you ever performed on stage or done anything radical before?
carmen hansen
Yes, I have on stage in a high school play. And I was in debate class too. I was a very shy gal. So, I tried these avenues to pull me out of shyness. I acted on stage for two semesters. I had a lot of fun but didn’t want to keep doing it. I went to debate class to learn how to speak up to people and to let them know what I was thinking of on each subject, and I realized I had a voice. My mother always told me I would amount to nothing. She didn’t realize how strong I was and passionate I am. Yeshua has taught me to have a voice of my own. I am strong as a warrior woman in Yeshua Ha Mashiach. I do have a lot of opinions maybe a little too much, well, maybe. Before I excepted Yeshua in my heart at 27years old. I used to do radical things to see if I was still alive. Friends would do dares for me to do, and I would go do them. Even jumping off of a bridge into the water, even though I didn’t know how to swim very well at all. Of course, I had my best friend down below to save me and she was there. Or else I wouldn’t be here. My husband and son don’t know this about the old me. I would ride a bicycle on a cliff, a rocky cliff up mountains. It’s like I tried to kill myself in a way, I guess. I did not care about much. I had a lot of pain and hate inside me. Crazy uh?! Yeshua saved me from trying to hurt myself and He sent out a lot of angels to protect me. I praise Him!!!
I am writing a news journal to encourage my sisters and brothers in Christ. I published my first book called Bible Truth Warrior Daughter in Christ. You can find my book on Amazon, iTunes, Barnes and Noble and you can get them on e-book.
Have Courage in Yeshua
Courage is a quality every believer needs in their walk with God. Life brings challenges, trials, and moments of fear, but the Bible offers countless reminders that we can be strong and courageous through faith. This post will guide you through 40 powerful bible verses about courage to uplift your spirit and strengthen your heart.
What Does the Bible Say About Courage?
The Bible is rich with passages encouraging believers to be brave and strong. Courage, in a biblical sense, is not about the absence of fear but about standing firm in faith despite fear. Whether facing enemies, personal trials, or daunting tasks, God consistently calls His people to take heart, trust in Him, and move forward.
Joshua 1:9 is a foundational verse on this subject: “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”
Throughout Scripture, courage is often linked to God’s presence. When we know that God is with us, fear loses its grip, and faith rises within us. These verses will show that courage comes from trusting in God’s promises, relying on His strength, and standing firm in the face of adversity.
Here are 40 powerful bible verses about courage:
Joshua 1:9 – “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”
Deuteronomy 31:6 – “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”
Isaiah 41:10 – “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.”
Psalm 27:1 – “The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear?”
2 Timothy 1:7 – “For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.”
1 Chronicles 28:20 – “Be strong and courageous and do the work. Do not be afraid or discouraged.”
Psalm 31:24 – “Be strong and take heart, all you who hope in the Lord.”
John 16:33 – “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”
Proverbs 3:5-6 – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.”
Romans 8:31 – “If God is for us, who can be against us?”
1 Corinthians 16:13 – “Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong.”
Psalm 56:3-4 – “When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.”
Hebrews 13:6 – “The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid.”
Matthew 10:28 – “Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul.”
Ephesians 6:10 – “Be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power.”
Isaiah 43:2 – “When you pass through the waters, I will be with you.”
Psalm 112:7 – “They will have no fear of bad news; their hearts are steadfast, trusting in the Lord.”
Zephaniah 3:17 – “The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves.”
Philippians 1:28 – “Without being frightened in any way by those who oppose you.”
Acts 4:29 – “Enable your servants to speak your word with great boldness.”
Psalm 23:4 – “Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil.”
Nehemiah 8:10 – “Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.”
Mark 5:36 – “Don’t be afraid; just believe.”
Isaiah 35:4 – “Say to those with fearful hearts, ‘Be strong, do not fear.’”
Judges 6:12 – “The Lord is with you, mighty warrior.”
Daniel 10:19 – “Do not be afraid, you who are highly esteemed. Be strong now; be strong.”
1 Peter 5:7 – “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.”
Psalm 118:6 – “The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid.”
Matthew 14:27 – “Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid.”
Colossians 3:15 – “Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts.”
Isaiah 12:2 – “Surely God is my salvation; I will trust and not be afraid.”
Psalm 46:1-2 – “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.”
Luke 12:32 – “Do not be afraid, little flock, for your Father has been pleased to give you the kingdom.”
2 Chronicles 20:17 – “Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged. Go out to face them tomorrow, and the Lord will be with you.”
Philippians 4:13 – “I can do all this through him who gives me strength.”
Romans 15:13 – “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him.”
Psalm 91:4-5 – “You will not fear the terror of night, nor the arrow that flies by day.”
Deuteronomy 3:22 – “Do not be afraid of them; the Lord your God himself will fight for you.”
2 Samuel 10:12 – “Be strong and let us fight bravely for our people.”
Exodus 14:14 – “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.”
How to Apply These Bible Verses About Courage in Your Life
Reading these bible verses about courage is just the beginning. Meditate on them daily, pray them over your situations, and memorize key scriptures that speak directly to your heart. The next time fear or doubt arises, declare God’s word boldly.
Remember that courage grows through small steps of obedience and trust. Surround yourself with people who encourage your faith and keep Yeshua’s promises at the forefront of your mind. Each verse listed here serves as a Spiritual Weapon against fear and discouragement.
These bible verses about courage remind me that strength comes not from our abilities but from God’s presence and promises. Whether you’re facing a new challenge, a difficult season, or a spiritual battle, let these scriptures strengthen your heart and fill you with unshakable confidence.
Have Vulnerability in and Through Yeshua
2 Timothy 3:6
For among them are those who enter into households and captivate weak women weighed down with sins, led on by various impulses,
Titus 1:11
who must be silenced because they are upsetting whole families, teaching things they should not teach for the sake of sordid gain.
2 Corinthians 11:30
If I have to boast, I will boast of what pertains to my weakness.
Leviticus 25:17
So you shall not wrong one another, but you shall fear your God; for I am the Lord your God.
Genesis 42:12
Yet he said to them, “No, but you have come to look at the undefended parts of our land!”
2 Timothy 3:5
holding to a form of godliness, although they have denied its power; Avoid such men as these.
John 5:27
and He gave Him authority to execute judgment, because He is the Son of Man.
Psalm 49:5
Why should I fear in days of adversity,
When the iniquity of my foes surrounds me,
Jude 1:4
For certain persons have crept in unnoticed, those who were long beforehand marked out for this condemnation, ungodly persons who turn the grace of our God into licentiousness and deny our only Master and Lord, Jesus Christ.
Exodus 32:25
Now when Moses saw that the people were out of control—for Aaron had let them get out of control to be a derision among their enemies—
Nehemiah 4:13
then I stationed men in the lowest parts of the space behind the wall, the exposed places, and I stationed the people in families with their swords, spears and bows.
Genesis 37:6
He said to them, “Please listen to this dream which I have had;
2 Timothy 3:7
always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.
1 Timothy 5:6
But she who gives herself to wanton pleasure is dead even while she lives.
Genesis 42:11
We are all sons of one man; we are honest men, your servants are not spies.”
Ecclesiastes 10:2
A wise man’s heart directs him toward the right, but the foolish man’s heart directs him toward the left.
Proverbs 22:22
Do not rob the poor because he is poor,
Or crush the afflicted at the gate;
Titus 3:3
For we also once were foolish ourselves, disobedient, deceived, enslaved to various lusts and pleasures, spending our life in malice and envy, hateful, hating one another.
Mark 14:31
But Peter kept saying insistently, “Even if I have to die with You, I will not deny You!” And they all were saying the same thing also.
Matthew 18:14
So it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones perish.
Nehemiah 4:14
When I saw their fear, I rose and spoke to the nobles, the officials and the rest of the people: “Do not be afraid of them; remember the Lord who is great and awesome, and fight for your brothers, your sons, your daughters, your wives and your houses.”
Judges 16:19
She made him sleep on her knees and called for a man and had him shave off the seven locks of his hair. Then she began to afflict him, and his strength left him.
Isaiah 1:17
Learn to do good.
Seek justice,
Reprove the ruthless,
Defend the orphan,
Plead for the widow.
Genesis 42:13
But they said, “Your servants are twelve brothers in all, the sons of one man in the land of Canaan; and behold, the youngest is with our father today, and one is no longer alive.”
Exodus 22:23
If you afflict him at all, and if he does cry out to Me, I will surely hear his cry.
John 21:15
So, when they had finished breakfast, Jesus *said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of John, do you love Me more than these?” He *said to Him, “Yes, Lord; You know that I love You.” He *said to him, “Tend My lambs.”
Job 41:7
“Can you fill his skin with harpoons,
Or his head with fishing spears?
Genesis 42:9
Joseph remembered the dreams which he had about them, and said to them, “You are spies; you have come to look at the undefended parts of our land.”
Jude 1:24
Now to Him who is able to keep you from stumbling, and to make you stand in the presence of His glory blameless with great joy,
Nehemiah 4:12
When the Jews who lived near them came and told us ten times, “They will come up against us from every place where you may turn,”
Genesis 37:7
for behold, we were binding sheaves in the field, and lo, my sheaf rose up and also stood erect; and behold, your sheaves gathered around and bowed down to my sheaf.”
Genesis 42:8
But Joseph had recognized his brothers, although they did not recognize him.
Nehemiah 4:18
As for the builders, each wore his sword girded at his side as he built, while the trumpeter stood near me.
2 Kings 3:26
When the king of Moab saw that the battle was too fierce for him, he took with him 700 men who drew swords, to break through to the king of Edom; but they could not.
Genesis 42:10
Then they said to him, “No, my lord, but your servants have come to buy food.
EVENTS
I have no Book Signings scheduled for now. I have my books locally at Books and Brush Bookstore.
I’m teaching at the Centralia Community College for the Spring Quarter.
If you’re interested sign up to the class on the college website. Starting in April.
These classes will be on How to Make Shower Scrubs, and my other class is on How to Make Massage Oils of your own.
HOW TO FIND ME
I will let you know when more book signings are going on. I can be found on Spotify, my podcast (bibletruthwarriorwomen.com)
also, on Riverside. FM, my Blog called (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com)
My news articles can be found on carmenhansen.substack.com
Life Coaching site to schedule an appointment with me call me at 360-880-4217 or on my email at writercarmenhansen@bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com
You can find me on (christianfaithpublishing.com), on my Author page to buy my book or read my Press Release.
My book is available for purchase on Amazon, I tunes, eBooks, Barnes and Noble.
MY SOCIAL MEDIA SITES
Facebook, Instagram, Telegram and Linked in, Riverside.fm.
Find me at Carmen Hansen or Carmella.
BIBLE TEACHING CLASSES
Please Check them out. They have helped me get through this process of stepping out and being bold in Christ. I enjoy Women of Faith classes, Proverb 31 Women writing classes.
LIST OF MY BUSINESSES
Carmen’s Visual Effects store #1 and #2 on my Blog at (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com) I make all kinds of body products such as body butters, massage oils, body scrubs, lip and cuticle butter with mango butter etc.
There is a way to buy my body products online or call me to buy. Take a look if you’d like. It’s always good to care for yourself.
You can find my Artwork in card form on my Blog called (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com)
I take photos of Nature and Animals. I’ve been doing this business for a long time now. I am a Birder.
As a lot of you know my sweet Frankie passed on. He was very sick at the end. It was hard to watch him not be able to hike anymore with me. Then it got to the point where he could walk slowly with me around the property. Then to not being able to hold himself up to walk down the stairs to go potty.
The vet we went to was so kind to us all. My hubby and I had to put him down. We could tell he was hurting badly. We had just put our son’s cat down at the end of August. Menorah was with us for 17 years. He was my son’s buddy for all of those years.
Letting Frankie go into Yeshua’s arms was a hard thing to do. But like a sweet young farm girl told me that Frankie is in the safest place he could be now, in heaven with Yeshua. My heart still aches, and I know my husband’s heart does too. Both of the beautiful animals we got to hang out with all those years were our family pets. They both loved all three of us. And we loved them back so much.
I’m going to make a shadow box with Menorah’s paw prints and pictures in it for my son. Then I am going to make a shadow box with Frankies paw prints and pictures in it for my hubby and I to have. I did make dog tag and kitty tag keychains for all three of us too. It’s taking me awhile to get them made. I felt like I lost a child.
I am writing a news journal to encourage my sisters and brothers in Christ. I published my first book called Bible Truth Warrior Daughter in Christ. You can find my book on Amazon, iTunes, Barnes and Noble and you can get them on e-book.
How many hours of sleep do I need?
Few experiences rival the calm satisfaction of falling asleep easily and waking up feeling fully rested. But sleep is more than a luxury or idle downtime, it’s a vital biological process that supports nearly every system in your body. It allows your brain to consolidate memories, clear metabolic waste, regulate hormones (menopause) and repair muscle tissue. Your immune system also uses sleep to recharge its defenses. Without it, vital bodily functions would eventually break down, leading to death.
Despite its essential role, many of us aren’t getting enough rest; it’s a shortfall that can quietly erode both physical and mental well-being.
Here’s why sufficient sleep matters, how much you really need and some evidence-based support for better rest.
While getting seven hours of sleep each night is the recommended minimum reports show that more than 1/3 of Americans still don’t get even that amount, “suggesting an ongoing need for public awareness and public education about sleep health.
What are the benefits of extra sleep?
When sleep is cut short or consistently disrupted, nearly every system in the body suffers. That sleeping less than seven hours a night “is associated with greater likelihoods of obesity, high blood pressure, diabetes, coronary heart disease, stroke, frequent mental distress and death.”
Over time, such habits can increase not only total sleep but also the proportion of deep, restorative sleep, so you’re not just in bed longer but actually resting better.
In the end, “sleep often feels like the easiest thing to sacrifice when life gets busy. “But I recommend asking Yeshua/Jesus to help you with your sleep issues. To trust Him more and know that He’s beside you day and night.
EVENTS
Book Signing on October 31st at Sweet Inspirations Café at noon to 3pm
Book Signing at South Pacific Bistro on November 7th at 3 to 6pm
Book Signing on November 14th at Stout Coffeehouse at 10 to 1pm
Book Signing on November 21st at Mint City Coffeehouse at 10 to 1pm
Book Signing at Lewis County/ The Station in Centrella on November 28th at 10 to 1pm
I’m teaching at the Centralia Community College for the Fall quarter.
If you’re interested sign up to the class on the college website.
On Nov. 1st, Nov. 8th, Nov. 15th, Nov. 22nd and the last class will be on Nov. 29th.
These classes will be on How to Make Shower Scrubs, and my other class is on How to Make Massage Oils of your own.
HOW TO FIND ME
I will let you know when more book signings are going on. I can be found on Spotify, my podcast (bibletruthwarriorwomen.com)
also, on Riverside. FM, my Blog called (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com)
My news articles can be found on (carmenhansen@substack.com)
Life Coaching site to schedule an appointment with me call me at 360-880-4217 or on my email at writercarmenhansen@bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com
You can find me on (christianfaithpublishing.com), on my Author page to buy my book or read my Press Release.
My book is available for purchase on Amazon, I tunes, eBooks, Barnes and Noble.
MY SOCIAL MEDIA SITES
Facebook, Instagram, Telegram and Linked in.
Find me at Carmen Hansen or Carmella.
BIBLE TEACHING CLASSES
Please Check them out. They have helped me get through this process of stepping out and being bold in Christ. I enjoy Women of Faith classes, Proverb 31 Women classes.
LIST OF MY BUSINESSES
Carmen’s Visual Effects store #1 and #2 on my Blog at (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com) I make all kinds of body products such as body butters, massage oils, body scrubs, lip and cuticle butter with mango butter etc.
There is a way to buy the body products online or call me to buy. Take a look if you’d like. It’s always good to care for yourself.
You can find my Artwork in card form on my Blog called (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com)
I take photos of nature and animals. I’ve been doing this business for a long time now. I am a birder.
I am writing a news journal to encourage my sisters and brothers in Christ. I published my first book called Bible Truth Warrior Daughter in Christ. You can find my book on Amazon, iTunes, Barnes and Noble and you can get them on e-book.
Fall Trains Rides in the Pacific Northwest Area
The Pacific Northwest offers a variety of
scenic train rides that are perfect for
experiencing the fall foliage.
Here are some of the best options to consider for your fall
Book Signing on October 17th at South Pacific Bistro
Book Signing on October 31st at Sweet Inspirations Café
Book Signing on November 14th at Stout Coffeehouse
Book Signing on November 21st at Mint City Coffeehouse
I’m teaching at the Centralia Community College for the Fall quarter.
If you’re interested sign up to the class on the college website.
Starting on October 4th at 10-1pm. My other classes are on Oct. 11th, Oct. 18th, Oct. 25th, Nov. 1st, Nov. 8th, Nov. 15th, Nov. 22nd and the last class will be on Nov. 29th.
These classes will be on How to Make Shower Scrubs, and my other class is on How to Make Massage Oils of your own.
HOW TO FIND ME
I will let you know when more book signings are going on. I can be found on Spotify, my podcast (bibletruthwarriorwomen.com) also on Riverside. FM, my Blog called (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com)
My news articles can be found on (carmenhansen@substack.com)
Life Coaching site to schedule an appointment with me on (paperbell.me/bible-truth-warrior-women-life- coach).
You can find me on (christianfaithpublishing.com), on my Author page to buy my book or read my Press Release.
MY SOCIAL MEDIA SITES
Facebook, Instagram, Telegram and Linked in.
BIBLE TEACHING CLASSES
Please Check them out. They have helped me get through this process of stepping out and being bold in Christ. I enjoy Women of Faith classes, Proverb 31 Women classes.
LIST OF MY BUSINESSES
Carmen’s Visual Effects store #1 and #2 on my Blog at (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com) I make all kinds of body products such as body butter, massage oils, body scrubs, lip and cuticle butter with mango butter etc.
There is a way to buy the body products online or call me to buy. Take a look if you’d like. It’s always good to care for yourself.
You can find my Artwork in card form on my Blog called (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com)
I take photos of nature and animals. I’ve been doing this business for a long time now. I am a birder.
My son’s cat named Menorah just went home to Yeshua. I got to be buddies with him for two years. My son moved out and moved to Texas with his finance.
It was so hard to let Menorah go. I finally had to pray and ask the Lord if it was time to have him put to sleep. Oh, it hurt down deep in my heart because Menorah was my son’s cat and a huge part of my son’s heart. I have been missing Josiah for two years. I do talk with him sometimes when he’s not so busy.
So, we all went to the vet with Menorah, Josiah was there on the phone and got to say goodbye and tell Menorah that he loves him and can’t wait to see him in heaven someday. I cried and cried I couldn’t stop crying. Dave cried and cried, I didn’t know my husband fell in love with Menorah too. He called him bright eyes. I called Menorah my sweet Menorah oh and I called him fluffy butt too.
I know when I lost my first pet, Charlie, my white beautiful boy. My heart ached and I didn’t think I was going to handle it. But I did. I’ll never forget him. I know he’s with Yeshua. I believe I will see him again. Yes, I’m one of those remnants that believe in my heart that all of my precious pets I will see again in heaven.
Our sweet Menorah kitty that lived for 17 years. Wow! I am so blessed to have known and played with him for all of those years. And I know my son will never forget his best friend, Menorah.
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About me
I am a Bible Truth Warrior Daughter to the King of all Kings. I walk in relationship with Yeshua/Jesus. I am married to a Godly man who has a relationship with Yeshua. I have a son, and he walks in relationship with Yeshua/Jesus too. My son fell in love with a beautiful young woman of God and moved to have his family in Texas. I miss him a lot. I decided to do Bible Truth Life Coaching to encourage and inspire sisters in the Lord. I hope Yeshua will use me to guide my sisters closer to a relationship with Him.
I would like to meet you on the phone or on zoom for only 30 to 45 minutes. To get to know you and so you can get to know me better. Just to see if this is a good fit for you. Thank you.
GET A WARRIOR WOMEN’S DREAM We will pray together to find out what your dream or vision means. To commit your allegiance to Yeshua/Jesus. To foster an alignment with His Kingdom through allegiance to Him.
To walk with a sister in Christ. To help organize your life better. To pray for His guidance.
UNDERSTAND SELF-CARE! To self-care in God’s Word. To help discover your potential. Also to help a women feel closer to God through encouragement and through self-reflection.
This is a package for every 2 weeks to talk about your goals and to decipher your dreams. Also to take that time you have always wanted to reflect on God’s word and to pray.
more centered in Yeshua/Jesus. To gain your confidence with some mentoring.
This is 12 sessions once a month for a year and you can get 5 free sessions during the one year. I hope to help you with your confidence and to know that God did not expect you to not have a voice of your own in Him. Please speak up and be brave and bold only in Christ. Be Wild and Free!
11.GROUP OF WARRIOR WOMEN TO STUDY THE WORD OF GOD
BOOKING IS OPEN FOR A GROUP OF WOMEN Here are the Women of God that will stand with you. I will be standing with you as well in Yeshua/Jesus.
These are Warrior Women Standing for Jesus/Yeshua. Enjoy a group study of the Bible with three other Warrior Daughters of Christ. I pray this might stir your spirit to check this out for yourself. I am here for you, you are not alone anymore.
When there is three or four women signed up, I will split up the $100.00 fee for each session we meet. You will get half hour each session free.
To be in this group study, you will each get an hour and half.
There will be three or four women to exchange ideas about the different Bible verses.
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Thank you for giving this package a chance. We will talk once a month on whatever you want to talk about. Just remember I am not a counselor. But if you would like to discuss your life. I am here for you. So, I am here to coach you in Christ.
I am so blessed to know Carmen she has been there for me through so many life experiences. Always has given me guidance and hope. She has always guided me to have a deeper relationship with Christ.
– Joanne Murry
I always knew God blessed me with Carmen; she has always given me encouragement. I knew she would always be praying for me, that is a comfort.
– Kimberly Johnson
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I am writing a news journal to encourage my sisters and brothers in Christ. I published my first book called Bible Truth Warrior Daughter in Christ. You can find my book on Amazon, iTunes, Barnes and Noble and you can get it on e-book.
If You Were Raised by a Narcissist
If you’ve been on the internet lately, you’ve probably seen the term “narcissist” thrown around. It’s become a common label used to describe toxic traits and behaviors, often in the context of romantic relationships.
You may think of the classic love-bombing, manipulative cheater or the arrogant, entitled spouse who is always right.
Another type of relationship that’s often plagued by narcissism is the one between a parent and child. The narcissistic parent is often depicted in a film, such as Faye Dunaway’s role in “Mommie Dearest.”
Narcissistic parents can shape the entire family dynamic and have a lasting impact on a child’s wellbeing. However, children of narcissists may not realize this until they’re struggling with the effects years or decades later.
How can you tell if a parent was a narcissist?
· Having unreasonable expectations
· Being unable to understand children’s feelings
Being obsessed with their family’s appearance
Not respecting child’s boundaries
Giving love conditionally based on a child’s ability to perform or meet their expectations
Narcissistic parents often use enmeshment to control children. It’s communicated in a million ways that the child doesn’t get to be separate from the parent, so the child having a need or a want that’s different would be selfish.
They often put themselves first. There’s no awareness, no attunement to their child. Children may feel responsible for their parent’s happiness, at the cost of their own desires and dreams.
If a child shows emotions that evoke shame in the parent, they are often viewed as a “bad kid.” They may blame one child for everything the “scapegoat” or pit children against each other.
Narcissistic parents also weaponize guilt. “Even if they don’t say it directly, they’ll say, ‘you owe me.”
“Narcissistic parents view themselves as special or perfect, and they expect that from their children.” Errors are often not tolerated, and when errors do happen, the parent may become verbally abusive or give the silent treatment.
Generally, narcissistic parents lack empathy, but they can also be inconsistent with love. A narcissistic parent may have mostly bad days but one good day when they show glimpses of warmth and attention, which a child often holds onto.
Due to the appearance-obsessed nature of narcissists, this dysfunction isn’t always obvious.
Narcissistic relationships are also on a spectrum. At the most severe level, there’s violence and abuse. “Most people are at the moderate-to-mild end … but it’s still incredibly invalidating.”
Being Raised by a Narcissist
Growing up with a narcissistic parent or caregiver can significantly affect a person’s development, mental health and behavior in childhood and adulthood.
“The child doesn’t have options. They have to attach to their parents for survival. This is also who feeds them and houses them and who is meant to make them feel emotionally safe.”
In order to maintain that attachment, children will learn to modify themselves, which can impact self-esteem.
Never Feeling Good Enough
The sign that a person was raised by a narcissist is chronically feeling like they are “not enough.” “I haven’t done enough. I didn’t try hard enough. I didn’t give enough.”
Other parenting styles or childhood trauma can also cause a person to feel this way, But “I think there’s something unique about the child with a narcissistic parent, because the myth sold to the child is that there’s always something they can do that would be enough.”
During adulthood, this may manifest as perfectionism, self-doubt, shame and imposter syndrome. “They’re always peddling faster and faster it seems.” “You (think) you have to earn love. You have to earn validation. You have to earn being seen.”
They may struggle to set boundaries or become codependent people-pleasers because they’re used to sacrificing themselves for a narcissistic parent.
Another telltale sign a person was raised by a narcissist is difficulty expressing needs, wants or aspirations, that it’s because they were made to feel ungrateful or selfish when they did.
Inconsistent reactions from the narcissistic parent, like rage or emotional abandonment, also create anxiety. Yelling at a child is terrible. Withdrawing and withholding from a child is worse. These children become adults who fear speaking up. They feel like they don’t have a voice. I have found that I finally have a voice through Yeshua (Jesus).
They think, “I better not share what I need or I’m going to lose my partner, or if I try to negotiate for a higher salary, this person won’t hire me, or if I say how I’m feeling people, will think I’m overly sensitive and dramatic.”
What to Do if You Think Your Parent is a Narcissist
First, always consult a mental health professional if you have concerns.
Generally, the first step is acknowledging the parent’s narcissistic behavior. What they did wasn’t OK, and it hurt you.
Some children may struggle and feel disloyal, especially if the narcissistic parent had a difficult past, such as trauma.
Healing can look different for everyone. It may involve therapy, support groups and lifestyle changes.
There’s no one-size-fits-all approach for dealing with a narcissistic parent. Some people may not engage at all or limit communication, whereas others adopt coping strategies because they still live with their parents, for example.
The parent may never apologize or change, but you can control your reactions and set healthy boundaries on yourself.
Finally, it’s important to practice self-care, you deserve it. I know it might take some time to realize that your Savior, Yeshua can and is working in you.
EVENTS
Book Signing on September 19th at 3-5pm at the Salkum Library
Book Signing on September 26th at 12:30-3pm at the Centralia Library
Book Signing on September 27th at 2-5pm at the Randle Library
Book Signing on October 10th at 2-5pm at Shelton Library
Book Signing on October 22nd at 3-6pm at Salkum Library
I’m teaching at the Centralia Community College for the Fall quarter.
If you’re interested sign up to the class on the college website.
Starting on October 4th at 10-1pm. My other classes are on Oct. 11th, Oct. 18th, Oct. 25th, Nov. 1st, Nov. 8th, Nov. 15th, Nov. 22nd and the last class will be on Nov. 29th.
These classes will be on How to Make Shower Scrubs, and my other class is on How to Make Massage Oils of your own.
HOW TO FIND ME
I will let you know when more book signings are going on. I can be found on Spotify, my podcast (bibletruthwarriorwomen.com) also on Riverside. FM, my Blog called (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com)
My news articles can be found on (carmenhansen@substack.com)
Life Coaching site to schedule an appointment with me on (paperbell.me/bible-truth-warrior-women-life- coach).
You can find me on (christianfaithpublishing.com), on my Author page to buy my book or read my Press Release.
MY SOCIAL MEDIA SITES
Facebook, Instagram, Telegram and Linked in.
BIBLE TEACHING CLASSES
Please Check them out. They have helped me get through this process of stepping out and being bold in Christ. I enjoy Women of Faith classes, Proverb 31 Women classes.
LIST OF MY BUSINESSES
Carmen’s Visual Effects store #1 and #2 on my Blog at (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com) I make all kinds of body products such as body butter, massage oils, body scrubs, lip and cuticle butter with mango butter etc.
There is a way to buy the body products online or call me to buy. Take a look if you’d like. It’s always good to care for yourself.
You can find my Artwork in card form on my Blog called (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com)
I take photos of nature and animals. I’ve been doing this business for a long time now. I am a birder.
Love and power often clashed within palace walls, shaping history in ways you wouldn’t expect. Some kings had many wives and faced tangled relationships that influenced their kingdoms. Others devoted themselves to a single wife and left a legacy of loyalty. Their stories show the human side of royalty, where choices of the heart mattered as much as the crown. Let’s first look at kings who embraced multiple marriages and the lives they built around them.
1. King Solomon Of Israel
King Solomon of Israel is biblically recorded as having 700 wives and 300 concubines. These unions weren’t solely for desire, they served political ends, strengthening alliances with foreign powers. However, his marriages to foreign wives and princesses created deep religious tensions.
2. Emperor Moulay Ismail of Morocco
Marked by calculated marriages to unify tribes, Moulay Ismail’s rule spanned over five decades. With four wives, 500 concubines, and reportedly over 800 children, he used his harem as a political tool while enforcing order and building lasting architectural marvels.
3. Maharaja Bhupinder Singh of India
A patron of opulence, he’s credited with popularizing the Patiala peg. Maharaja Bhupinder Singh of Patiala kept 10 wives and 350 concubines, and he fathered 88 children, but only 52 survived. Among his consorts, Rajmata Vimal Kaur held a special place in his life.
4. Pharaoh Ramses II Of Egypt
During his 66-year reign, Ramses II married over 200 women and fathered more than 100 children. These unions bolstered his image as both ruler and god. His favorite wife, Nefertari, was immortalized in colossal temples built to celebrate her status.
5. King Mongkut Of Siam
Ruling from 1851 to 1868, King Mongkut had over 30 wives and concubines. Most marriages weren’t for love, as they were diplomatic moves. He ruled from 1851 to 1868 and pushed Siam into the modern age, and even inspired the hit musical The King and I.
6. King Henry VIII Of England
Henry VIII had six wives, three of whom were officially annulled through the Church of England. His strong desire for a male heir led to the English Reformation and the creation of a national church separate from Rome. It had a long-lasting effect on religion and the monarchy.
7. King Sobhuza II Of Swaziland
Reigning for over 60 years, King Sobhuza II of Swaziland had 70 wives and fathered 210 children between 1920 and 1970. At his passing, his royal line had expanded to include more than 1,000 grandchildren, and his dynasty shaped the nation’s leadership and traditions for generations.
Now that we’ve seen kings with many marriages, let’s turn to those who remained loyal to a single queen.
8. King George VI Of England
King George VI married Elizabeth Bowes-Lyon and remained devoted throughout their lives. Their partnership endured the trials of World War II and personal hardship, including his early speech challenges. He was the father of Queen Elizabeth II and led with quiet strength.
9. King Louis XVI Of France
Though arranged, King Louis XVI and Marie Antoinette’s marriage proved stable through personal and political turmoil. Unfortunately, both were executed during the French Revolution, and their union remains a powerful symbol of the monarchy’s dramatic fall.
10. King Haakon VII Of Norway
When Norway became independent in 1905, Haakon VII stepped up as king, with Princess Maud of Wales by his side. Their marriage wasn’t just royal; it helped boost national pride. He kept things grounded and was known for being humble and fair.
11. King Albert I Of Belgium
King Albert I, married to Elisabeth of Bavaria, guided Belgium through World War I with bravery and moral resolve. His battlefield presence earned him the title “Knight King,” while their admired partnership became a symbol of strength across war-torn Europe.
12. Emperor Hongzhi Of China
During his Ming Dynasty reign from 1487 to 1505, Emperor Hongzhi chose lifelong monogamy with Empress Zhang. Their relationship, built on mutual respect, defied imperial norms. She played a visible role in governance and was widely respected by court officials.
13. Henry VII Of England
His marriage in 1486 to Elizabeth of York brought peace to war-torn England and evolved into an affectionate, lasting personal bond. Henry never remarried after her passing, and their elaborate tombs stand at Westminster Abbey.
14. King Charles I Of England
Charles I and Henrietta Maria stayed committed through civil unrest and religious divides and were married for 23 years. Though their union faced scrutiny, their private letters paint a picture of deep affection and mutual loyalty that endured until Charles’s execution.
I hope you enjoyed a little history of the wives of kings through the ages. It was fun to do some research on this subject. I pray you all be blessed in Yeshua’s name.
I am starting a newsletter to encourage my sisters in Christ. I published my first book called Bible Truth Warrior Daughter in Christ. You gals can find my book on Amazon, iTunes, Barnes and Noble and you can get it on e- book.
Calm Phrases That Shut Down Rude People
If you’ve ever dealt with someone so rude that it caught you off guard, you’ll know how frustrating and harmful it can be. But you don’t have to match someone’s bad attitude to make your point. These phrases are like secret weapons, they’re polite, to the point, and they shut down disrespect fast.
“Let’s keep this respectful”
Nobody likes being talked down to. This phrase is a way of calling it out without getting aggressive. It signals that the tone of the conversation isn’t okay and that you expect better. Saying it with a calm, steady voice lets you take charge without creating more tension. People often rethink their tone when you show them where the line is.
“I’m not comfortable with that”
There’s something incredibly grounding about expressing how you feel in a direct way. You’re not pointing fingers; you’re simply stating your own boundary. That’s what makes this phrase effective. It can be used in so many situations, and it gives you a clear out without needing to explain yourself. Most people don’t push further after hearing this because it’s so neutral but firm.
“Let’s take a step back”
Things can get heated quickly when someone’s being rude, and it’s easy to get pulled into it. Using this phrase lets you pause the moment and create a little breathing room. It puts space between you and the other person’s behavior without needing to argue or defend yourself.
In group situations, it can also help others recognize that something’s off. You’re basically saying, “Hold up,” but in a calm, grown-up way that invites reflection instead of conflict.
“I’d rather not continue this right now”
Sometimes the best thing you can do is walk away. This phrase gives you a polite exit without escalating the situation. It’s a clear signal that you’re not interested in arguing or taking on someone else’s negativity. By removing yourself, you take away their audience. It works especially well when someone’s trying to provoke a reaction.
“That didn’t sit right with me”
It might not seem like much, but this simple sentence packs a punch. It points out that something felt off, without sounding aggressive or accusing. It makes the other person reflect on what they said or did and usually softens the energy immediately. You’re not calling them names you’re calling attention to your reaction.
“I’m not okay with being spoken to like that”
You deserve to be treated with respect, plain and simple. If someone’s tone or words are crossing a line, this phrase spells it out. It leaves no room for guessing. Sometimes people test your boundaries just to see what you’ll tolerate. This is how you show them your limit. Keep your tone calm and confident, and you’ll be surprised how quickly people back down when they realize you’re not afraid to speak up.
“We can revisit this when things cool down”
Disagreements happen, but rudeness shouldn’t be part of the deal. If someone’s getting out of hand, you can press pause with this line. It doesn’t shut the door it just says, “Not like this.” You’re showing maturity and patience without letting them walk all over you.
“That’s not something I’m going to engage with”
Not everything needs a reaction. When someone’s clearly trying to get under your skin, this phrase stops them cold. It tells them you’re not here to entertain drama or disrespect. No yelling, no back-and-forth, just a clear refusal to take the bait. It works particularly well in text or email, too.
“You’re entitled to your opinion, but I disagree.”
Not every rude comment needs a comeback. Sometimes a simple statement like this is enough. It shuts down any attempt to bait you into an argument while keeping the door closed to further disrespect.
You’re making it clear that you won’t be swayed or silenced, but you’re not stooping to their level either. This is a great phrase when someone’s being snide, condescending, or just plain mean in a discussion.
“Please don’t speak to me like that”
It’s direct. It’s clear. And it gets the job done. You’re not asking for permission, you’re stating your boundary. This phrase is especially useful when someone is raising their voice or using a nasty tone. By calmly saying this, you take the spotlight off their anger and put it on your expectation for basic decency.
“I’m going to step away for a minute”
Instead of lashing out, try removing yourself from the situation. This phrase is a calm way to protect your peace without causing more tension. You’re not storming off, you’re just choosing space over conflict. It also gives the other person time to reflect on their behavior, and sometimes that’s all it takes for things to settle.
“Let’s try to stay focused on the issue”
Rude people often veer off-topic to stir up drama or make things personal. Bring things back to center with this line. It reminds everyone what matters and makes it harder for the other person to keep up the behavior without looking petty. You’re not dismissing the person you’re just redirecting the energy to something productive.
“That’s not appropriate”
Sometimes the quickest way to shut down rudeness is to name it. This phrase cuts through the noise without adding any fuel. It works especially well when someone says something offensive or out of line in a group setting. Saying it firmly, without emotion, puts the pressure back on them to rethink their words.
“Let’s not go there”
Some people love to stir the pot, especially when it comes to touchy topics. This phrase gives you a smooth way to shut that down before it starts. You’re not asking for a debate, you’re signaling that you won’t participate. This works really well for rude jokes, passive-aggressive remarks, or loaded questions.
“I think we need a break from this conversation”
When things get tense and unproductive, this phrase steps in like a timeout. It’s a healthy boundary that says, “This isn’t working.” Instead of getting pulled into someone else’s chaos, you’re choosing peace.
It also opens the door for a more respectful discussion later if you even want one. You’re not walking away forever, but you are choosing when and how to engage.
“I hear you, but that was uncalled for”
Rudeness disguised as honesty is still rudeness. This phrase acknowledges the other person’s words without letting them off the hook for being disrespectful. It gives you a chance to keep the conversation going if needed, while still holding your boundary. Sometimes people don’t realize their tone or word choice was hurtful until you name it.
We can continue this when you’re ready to be respectful”
When someone’s being difficult, this line draws a clear line in the sand. You’re open to continuing the conversation but only under the right conditions. This keeps the power in your hands without creating unnecessary tension. It’s especially helpful when someone’s being rude in a discussion that actually matters, like a work issue or a family situation.
EVENTS
Book Signing on September 19th at 3-5pm at the Salkum Library
Book Signing on September 20th at 10am-1pm at the Shelton Library
Book Signing on September 25th at 12:30-2:30pm at the Lacey Library
Book Signing on September 26th at 12:30-3pm at the Centralia Library
Book Signing on September 27th at 2-5pm at the Randle Library
Book Signing October 2nd at Noon-3pm at the Olympia Library
Book Signing October 3rd at 2-5pm at the Elma Library
Book Signing October 7th at 1:30pm-5pm at the Raymond Library
Book Signing October 9th at 11am-2pm at the Chehalis Library
I’m teaching at the Centralia Community College for the Fall quarter. If your interested sign up to the class on the college website. Starting on October 4th at 10-1pm. My other classes are Oct. 11th, Oct. 18th, Oct. 25th, Nov. 1st, Nov. 8th, Nov. 15th, Nov. 22nd and the last class will be on Nov. 29th. These classes will be on How to make Shower Scrubs, and my other class is on How to make Massage Oils of your own.
HOW TO FIND ME
I will let you know when more book signings are going on.
I can be found on Spotify, my podcast (bibletruthwarriorwomen.com) also on Riverside. FM, my Blog called (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com) My news articles can be found on (carmenhansen@substack.com), Life Coaching site to schedule an appointment with me on (paperbell.me/bible-truth-warrior-women-life- coach). You can find me on (christianfaithpublishing.com), on my Author page to buy my book or read my Press Release.
MY SOCIAL MEDIA SITES
On Facebook, Instagram, Telegram and Linked in.
BIBLE TEACHING CLASSES
Please Check them out. They have helped me get through this process of stepping out and be bold in Christ. I enjoy Women of Faith classes, Proverb 31 Women classes.
LIST OF MY BUSINESSES
Carmen’s Visual Effects store #1 and #2 on my Blog at (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com). I make all kinds of body products such as body butter, massage oils, body scrubs, lip and cuticle butter with mango butter etc.
There is a way to buy the body products online or call me to buy. Take a look if you’d like. It’s always good to care for yourself.
You can find my Artwork in card form on my Blog called (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com).
I take photos of nature and animals. I’ve been doing this business for a long time now. I am a birder.
In today’s world, where relationships evolve and traditional roles are questioned, a great wife is not someone who sacrifices herself in silence, but a woman who builds a relationship based on mutual respect, depth, and emotional growth. Women who tend to be excellent wives usually have a special combination of emotional intelligence, empathy, self-respect, and true commitment.
1. They know How to Listen Without Interrupting
They understand that listening with empathy strengthens the connection. They don’t rush to respond—they focus on understanding first.
2. They have Strong Emotional Intelligence
They recognize their emotions and express them with maturity. They speak when needed, pause when appropriate, and handle conflict without drama.
3. They Offer Support without Losing Themselves
They motivate their partner without controlling. They support goals and dreams while also pursuing their own.
4. They Care about the Little Things
Not because it’s expected, but because they know love grows in daily gestures a meal made with care, a comforting hug, or a thoughtful message.
5. They set Boundaries with Respect
They don’t accept everything. They know how to say “no” without shouting, teaching that respect starts with self-respect.
6. They Value Honest Communication
They prefer uncomfortable truths over silent distance. They understand that talking in time prevents emotional gaps.
7. They Don’t Compete they Collaborate
They’re not threatened by their partner’s success. They celebrate it. They know love isn’t a power struggle.
8. They Nurture their Self-Esteem
They don’t depend on their partner to feel valuable. They love themselves, take care of themselves, and show up as emotionally grounded women.
9. They are Faithful to Their Values
They don’t change their morals for convenience. Their integrity brings trust and stability to the relationship.
10. They Know How to Forgive but Don’t Forget the Lesson
They forgive with strength, not naivety. They learn from their experiences and grow wiser.
11. They Have a Sense of Humor
They know how to laugh with their partner, ease tension, and enjoy the beauty in everyday life.
12. They Don’t Cling to Control
They trust. They don’t obsess over monitoring or micromanaging. They give freedom because they understand that love thrives on trust.
13. They Believe in Love that’s Built, Not Assumed
They don’t idealize. They work. They know love is sustained through daily effort, and they’re willing to give what they expect to receive.
Proverbs 31:10-11
“An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain.”
Genesis 2:18
“Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.’”
Proverbs 12:4
“An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who brings shame is like rottenness in his bones.”
I want to share: You can buy my book on Amazon, iTunes, Barnes and Noble and in eBook and on christianfaithpublishing.com, on my author page.
Bible Truth Warrior Daughter in Christ
I hope this book will encourage you to realize there are other women who have gotten through the ugliest and come out of it in the name of Yeshua (Jesus). I am encouraging you not to give up. You will be touched by my words of comfort through life’s challenges. I pray this book will captivate you, and you will see Yeshua in every step I took in my life. Be that wild and free woman of God! I know you can get through anything, as long as you keep close to Him. When I say to be wild and free, it’s not to be restricted by the dogmas that are placed on us as kids. I am saying live your life with a boldness in Christ. I believe He wants us to stand up and stand firm in our resolve, with Yeshua there to be our rear guard. My life journey has been a rocky one until I found Yeshua (Jesus) when I turned twenty-seven years old. I praise Him for saving me. I know where I’m going, and I finally understand my purpose in this life. The brokenness in this life is our strength, remember, ladies? And Father God says He will use it for His good. I do believe that totally. To be wild and free is to be created as powerful women of God. What does that mean for you, beautiful women of the Almighty? We are all warrior women, daughters to Yeshua Ha Mashiach!
Bible Truth Warrior Devotionals 