My son’s cat named Menorah just went home to Yeshua. I got to be buddies with him for two years. My son moved out and moved to Texas with his finance.
It was so hard to let Menorah go. I finally had to pray and ask the Lord if it was time to have him put to sleep. Oh, it hurt down deep in my heart because Menorah was my son’s cat and a huge part of my son’s heart. I have been missing Josiah for two years. I do talk with him sometimes when he’s not so busy.
So, we all went to the vet with Menorah, Josiah was there on the phone and got to say goodbye and tell Menorah that he loves him and can’t wait to see him in heaven someday. I cried and cried I couldn’t stop crying. Dave cried and cried, I didn’t know my husband fell in love with Menorah too. He called him bright eyes. I called Menorah my sweet Menorah oh and I called him fluffy butt too.
I know when I lost my first pet, Charlie, my white beautiful boy. My heart ached and I didn’t think I was going to handle it. But I did. I’ll never forget him. I know he’s with Yeshua. I believe I will see him again. Yes, I’m one of those remnants that believe in my heart that all of my precious pets I will see again in heaven.
Our sweet Menorah kitty that lived for 17 years. Wow! I am so blessed to have known and played with him for all of those years. And I know my son will never forget his best friend, Menorah.
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BIBLE TRUTH WARRIOR WOMEN LIFE COACH
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About me
I am a Bible Truth Warrior Daughter to the King of all Kings. I walk in relationship with Yeshua/Jesus. I am married to a Godly man who has a relationship with Yeshua. I have a son, and he walks in relationship with Yeshua/Jesus too. My son fell in love with a beautiful young woman of God and moved to have his family in Texas. I miss him a lot. I decided to do Bible Truth Life Coaching to encourage and inspire sisters in the Lord. I hope Yeshua will use me to guide my sisters closer to a relationship with Him.
I would like to meet you on the phone or on zoom for only 30 to 45 minutes. To get to know you and so you can get to know me better. Just to see if this is a good fit for you. Thank you.
GET A WARRIOR WOMEN’S DREAM We will pray together to find out what your dream or vision means. To commit your allegiance to Yeshua/Jesus. To foster an alignment with His Kingdom through allegiance to Him.
To walk with a sister in Christ. To help organize your life better. To pray for His guidance.
UNDERSTAND SELF-CARE! To self-care in God’s Word. To help discover your potential. Also to help a women feel closer to God through encouragement and through self-reflection.
This is a package for every 2 weeks to talk about your goals and to decipher your dreams. Also to take that time you have always wanted to reflect on God’s word and to pray.
more centered in Yeshua/Jesus. To gain your confidence with some mentoring.
This is 12 sessions once a month for a year and you can get 5 free sessions during the one year. I hope to help you with your confidence and to know that God did not expect you to not have a voice of your own in Him. Please speak up and be brave and bold only in Christ. Be Wild and Free!
11.GROUP OF WARRIOR WOMEN TO STUDY THE WORD OF GOD
BOOKING IS OPEN FOR A GROUP OF WOMEN Here are the Women of God that will stand with you. I will be standing with you as well in Yeshua/Jesus.
These are Warrior Women Standing for Jesus/Yeshua. Enjoy a group study of the Bible with three other Warrior Daughters of Christ. I pray this might stir your spirit to check this out for yourself. I am here for you, you are not alone anymore.
When there is three or four women signed up, I will split up the $100.00 fee for each session we meet. You will get half hour each session free.
To be in this group study, you will each get an hour and half.
There will be three or four women to exchange ideas about the different Bible verses.
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Thank you for giving this package a chance. We will talk once a month on whatever you want to talk about. Just remember I am not a counselor. But if you would like to discuss your life. I am here for you. So, I am here to coach you in Christ.
I am so blessed to know Carmen she has been there for me through so many life experiences. Always has given me guidance and hope. She has always guided me to have a deeper relationship with Christ.
– Joanne Murry
I always knew God blessed me with Carmen; she has always given me encouragement. I knew she would always be praying for me, that is a comfort.
– Kimberly Johnson
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Let’s meet online or call and see if we are a good fit
I am writing a news journal to encourage my sisters and brothers in Christ. I published my first book called Bible Truth Warrior Daughter in Christ. You can find my book on Amazon, iTunes, Barnes and Noble and you can get it on e-book.
If You Were Raised by a Narcissist
If you’ve been on the internet lately, you’ve probably seen the term “narcissist” thrown around. It’s become a common label used to describe toxic traits and behaviors, often in the context of romantic relationships.
You may think of the classic love-bombing, manipulative cheater or the arrogant, entitled spouse who is always right.
Another type of relationship that’s often plagued by narcissism is the one between a parent and child. The narcissistic parent is often depicted in a film, such as Faye Dunaway’s role in “Mommie Dearest.”
Narcissistic parents can shape the entire family dynamic and have a lasting impact on a child’s wellbeing. However, children of narcissists may not realize this until they’re struggling with the effects years or decades later.
How can you tell if a parent was a narcissist?
· Having unreasonable expectations
· Being unable to understand children’s feelings
Being obsessed with their family’s appearance
Not respecting child’s boundaries
Giving love conditionally based on a child’s ability to perform or meet their expectations
Narcissistic parents often use enmeshment to control children. It’s communicated in a million ways that the child doesn’t get to be separate from the parent, so the child having a need or a want that’s different would be selfish.
They often put themselves first. There’s no awareness, no attunement to their child. Children may feel responsible for their parent’s happiness, at the cost of their own desires and dreams.
If a child shows emotions that evoke shame in the parent, they are often viewed as a “bad kid.” They may blame one child for everything the “scapegoat” or pit children against each other.
Narcissistic parents also weaponize guilt. “Even if they don’t say it directly, they’ll say, ‘you owe me.”
“Narcissistic parents view themselves as special or perfect, and they expect that from their children.” Errors are often not tolerated, and when errors do happen, the parent may become verbally abusive or give the silent treatment.
Generally, narcissistic parents lack empathy, but they can also be inconsistent with love. A narcissistic parent may have mostly bad days but one good day when they show glimpses of warmth and attention, which a child often holds onto.
Due to the appearance-obsessed nature of narcissists, this dysfunction isn’t always obvious.
Narcissistic relationships are also on a spectrum. At the most severe level, there’s violence and abuse. “Most people are at the moderate-to-mild end … but it’s still incredibly invalidating.”
Being Raised by a Narcissist
Growing up with a narcissistic parent or caregiver can significantly affect a person’s development, mental health and behavior in childhood and adulthood.
“The child doesn’t have options. They have to attach to their parents for survival. This is also who feeds them and houses them and who is meant to make them feel emotionally safe.”
In order to maintain that attachment, children will learn to modify themselves, which can impact self-esteem.
Never Feeling Good Enough
The sign that a person was raised by a narcissist is chronically feeling like they are “not enough.” “I haven’t done enough. I didn’t try hard enough. I didn’t give enough.”
Other parenting styles or childhood trauma can also cause a person to feel this way, But “I think there’s something unique about the child with a narcissistic parent, because the myth sold to the child is that there’s always something they can do that would be enough.”
During adulthood, this may manifest as perfectionism, self-doubt, shame and imposter syndrome. “They’re always peddling faster and faster it seems.” “You (think) you have to earn love. You have to earn validation. You have to earn being seen.”
They may struggle to set boundaries or become codependent people-pleasers because they’re used to sacrificing themselves for a narcissistic parent.
Another telltale sign a person was raised by a narcissist is difficulty expressing needs, wants or aspirations, that it’s because they were made to feel ungrateful or selfish when they did.
Inconsistent reactions from the narcissistic parent, like rage or emotional abandonment, also create anxiety. Yelling at a child is terrible. Withdrawing and withholding from a child is worse. These children become adults who fear speaking up. They feel like they don’t have a voice. I have found that I finally have a voice through Yeshua (Jesus).
They think, “I better not share what I need or I’m going to lose my partner, or if I try to negotiate for a higher salary, this person won’t hire me, or if I say how I’m feeling people, will think I’m overly sensitive and dramatic.”
What to Do if You Think Your Parent is a Narcissist
First, always consult a mental health professional if you have concerns.
Generally, the first step is acknowledging the parent’s narcissistic behavior. What they did wasn’t OK, and it hurt you.
Some children may struggle and feel disloyal, especially if the narcissistic parent had a difficult past, such as trauma.
Healing can look different for everyone. It may involve therapy, support groups and lifestyle changes.
There’s no one-size-fits-all approach for dealing with a narcissistic parent. Some people may not engage at all or limit communication, whereas others adopt coping strategies because they still live with their parents, for example.
The parent may never apologize or change, but you can control your reactions and set healthy boundaries on yourself.
Finally, it’s important to practice self-care, you deserve it. I know it might take some time to realize that your Savior, Yeshua can and is working in you.
EVENTS
Book Signing on September 19th at 3-5pm at the Salkum Library
Book Signing on September 26th at 12:30-3pm at the Centralia Library
Book Signing on September 27th at 2-5pm at the Randle Library
Book Signing on October 10th at 2-5pm at Shelton Library
Book Signing on October 22nd at 3-6pm at Salkum Library
I’m teaching at the Centralia Community College for the Fall quarter.
If you’re interested sign up to the class on the college website.
Starting on October 4th at 10-1pm. My other classes are on Oct. 11th, Oct. 18th, Oct. 25th, Nov. 1st, Nov. 8th, Nov. 15th, Nov. 22nd and the last class will be on Nov. 29th.
These classes will be on How to Make Shower Scrubs, and my other class is on How to Make Massage Oils of your own.
HOW TO FIND ME
I will let you know when more book signings are going on. I can be found on Spotify, my podcast (bibletruthwarriorwomen.com) also on Riverside. FM, my Blog called (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com)
My news articles can be found on (carmenhansen@substack.com)
Life Coaching site to schedule an appointment with me on (paperbell.me/bible-truth-warrior-women-life- coach).
You can find me on (christianfaithpublishing.com), on my Author page to buy my book or read my Press Release.
MY SOCIAL MEDIA SITES
Facebook, Instagram, Telegram and Linked in.
BIBLE TEACHING CLASSES
Please Check them out. They have helped me get through this process of stepping out and being bold in Christ. I enjoy Women of Faith classes, Proverb 31 Women classes.
LIST OF MY BUSINESSES
Carmen’s Visual Effects store #1 and #2 on my Blog at (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com) I make all kinds of body products such as body butter, massage oils, body scrubs, lip and cuticle butter with mango butter etc.
There is a way to buy the body products online or call me to buy. Take a look if you’d like. It’s always good to care for yourself.
You can find my Artwork in card form on my Blog called (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com)
I take photos of nature and animals. I’ve been doing this business for a long time now. I am a birder.
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