In today’s world, where relationships evolve and traditional roles are questioned, a great wife is not someone who sacrifices herself in silence, but a woman who builds a relationship based on mutual respect, depth, and emotional growth. Women who tend to be excellent wives usually have a special combination of emotional intelligence, empathy, self-respect, and true commitment.

1. They know How to Listen Without Interrupting

They understand that listening with empathy strengthens the connection. They don’t rush to respond—they focus on understanding first.

2. They have Strong Emotional Intelligence

They recognize their emotions and express them with maturity. They speak when needed, pause when appropriate, and handle conflict without drama.

3. They Offer Support without Losing Themselves

They motivate their partner without controlling. They support goals and dreams while also pursuing their own.

4. They Care about the Little Things

Not because it’s expected, but because they know love grows in daily gestures a meal made with care, a comforting hug, or a thoughtful message.

5. They set Boundaries with Respect

They don’t accept everything. They know how to say “no” without shouting, teaching that respect starts with self-respect.

6. They Value Honest Communication

They prefer uncomfortable truths over silent distance. They understand that talking in time prevents emotional gaps.

7. They Don’t Compete they Collaborate

They’re not threatened by their partner’s success. They celebrate it. They know love isn’t a power struggle.

8. They Nurture their Self-Esteem

They don’t depend on their partner to feel valuable. They love themselves, take care of themselves, and show up as emotionally grounded women.

9. They are Faithful to Their Values

They don’t change their morals for convenience. Their integrity brings trust and stability to the relationship.

10. They Know How to Forgive but Don’t Forget the Lesson

They forgive with strength, not naivety. They learn from their experiences and grow wiser.

11. They Have a Sense of Humor

They know how to laugh with their partner, ease tension, and enjoy the beauty in everyday life.

12. They Don’t Cling to Control

They trust. They don’t obsess over monitoring or micromanaging. They give freedom because they understand that love thrives on trust.

13. They Believe in Love that’s Built, Not Assumed

They don’t idealize. They work. They know love is sustained through daily effort, and they’re willing to give what they expect to receive.

Proverbs 31:10-11

“An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain.”

Genesis 2:18

“Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.’”

Proverbs 12:4

“An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who brings shame is like rottenness in his bones.”

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Bible Truth Warrior Daughter in Christ

I hope this book will encourage you to realize there are other women who have gotten through the ugliest and come out of it in the name of Yeshua (Jesus). I am encouraging you not to give up. You will be touched by my words of comfort through life’s challenges. I pray this book will captivate you, and you will see Yeshua in every step I took in my life. Be that wild and free woman of God! I know you can get through anything, as long as you keep close to Him. When I say to be wild and free, it’s not to be restricted by the dogmas that are placed on us as kids. I am saying live your life with a boldness in Christ. I believe He wants us to stand up and stand firm in our resolve, with Yeshua there to be our rear guard. My life journey has been a rocky one until I found Yeshua (Jesus) when I turned twenty-seven years old. I praise Him for saving me. I know where I’m going, and I finally understand my purpose in this life. The brokenness in this life is our strength, remember, ladies? And Father God says He will use it for His good. I do believe that totally. To be wild and free is to be created as powerful women of God. What does that mean for you, beautiful women of the Almighty? We are all warrior women, daughters to Yeshua Ha Mashiach!

— Carmen Hansen