In today’s world, where relationships evolve and traditional roles are questioned, a great wife is not someone who sacrifices herself in silence, but a woman who builds a relationship based on mutual respect, depth, and emotional growth. Women who tend to be excellent wives usually have a special combination of emotional intelligence, empathy, self-respect, and true commitment.

1. They know How to Listen Without Interrupting

They understand that listening with empathy strengthens the connection. They don’t rush to respond—they focus on understanding first.

2. They have Strong Emotional Intelligence

They recognize their emotions and express them with maturity. They speak when needed, pause when appropriate, and handle conflict without drama.

3. They Offer Support without Losing Themselves

They motivate their partner without controlling. They support goals and dreams while also pursuing their own.

4. They Care about the Little Things

Not because it’s expected, but because they know love grows in daily gestures a meal made with care, a comforting hug, or a thoughtful message.

5. They set Boundaries with Respect

They don’t accept everything. They know how to say “no” without shouting, teaching that respect starts with self-respect.

6. They Value Honest Communication

They prefer uncomfortable truths over silent distance. They understand that talking in time prevents emotional gaps.

7. They Don’t Compete they Collaborate

They’re not threatened by their partner’s success. They celebrate it. They know love isn’t a power struggle.

8. They Nurture their Self-Esteem

They don’t depend on their partner to feel valuable. They love themselves, take care of themselves, and show up as emotionally grounded women.

9. They are Faithful to Their Values

They don’t change their morals for convenience. Their integrity brings trust and stability to the relationship.

10. They Know How to Forgive but Don’t Forget the Lesson

They forgive with strength, not naivety. They learn from their experiences and grow wiser.

11. They Have a Sense of Humor

They know how to laugh with their partner, ease tension, and enjoy the beauty in everyday life.

12. They Don’t Cling to Control

They trust. They don’t obsess over monitoring or micromanaging. They give freedom because they understand that love thrives on trust.

13. They Believe in Love that’s Built, Not Assumed

They don’t idealize. They work. They know love is sustained through daily effort, and they’re willing to give what they expect to receive.

Proverbs 31:10-11

“An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain.”

Genesis 2:18

“Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.’”

Proverbs 12:4

“An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who brings shame is like rottenness in his bones.”

I want to share: You can buy my book on Amazon, iTunes, Barnes and Noble and in eBook and on christianfaithpublishing.com, on my author page.

Bible Truth Warrior Daughter in Christ

I hope this book will encourage you to realize there are other women who have gotten through the ugliest and come out of it in the name of Yeshua (Jesus). I am encouraging you not to give up. You will be touched by my words of comfort through life’s challenges. I pray this book will captivate you, and you will see Yeshua in every step I took in my life. Be that wild and free woman of God! I know you can get through anything, as long as you keep close to Him. When I say to be wild and free, it’s not to be restricted by the dogmas that are placed on us as kids. I am saying live your life with a boldness in Christ. I believe He wants us to stand up and stand firm in our resolve, with Yeshua there to be our rear guard. My life journey has been a rocky one until I found Yeshua (Jesus) when I turned twenty-seven years old. I praise Him for saving me. I know where I’m going, and I finally understand my purpose in this life. The brokenness in this life is our strength, remember, ladies? And Father God says He will use it for His good. I do believe that totally. To be wild and free is to be created as powerful women of God. What does that mean for you, beautiful women of the Almighty? We are all warrior women, daughters to Yeshua Ha Mashiach!

— Carmen Hansen

I am starting a newsletter to encourage my sisters in Christ. I published my first book called Bible Truth Warrior Daughter in Christ. You gals can find my book on Amazon, iTunes, Barnes and Noble and you can get it on e- book.

ENCOURAGEMENT

Faith in Action

When we think about standing up for Yeshua, we recognize that our faith isn’t meant to be stagnant. Instead, we view it as an active component of our daily lives. It means putting our beliefs into action, not just in our private lives, but also publicly. In every situation and relationship, we carry our faith with us, and it should inspire us to act in ways that reflect our love for Christ. As we go through our day-to-day, we can shine as lights in the world, showcasing the love and values Jesus represents.

James 2:26

“As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without deeds is dead.” – James 2:26

Galatians 5:1

“It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.” – Galatians 5:1

Philippians 4:13

“I can do all this through him who gives me strength.” – Philippians 4:13

Colossians 3:23-24

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward.” – Colossians 3:23-24

EVENTS

1. Book Signing on September 19th, 3 to 5pm at Salkum Library
2. Book Signing on September 20th, 2 to 5pm at the Chehalis Library
3. I’m Teaching at Centralia College for Autumn quarter. Starting Oct. 4^th from 10-1pm. Oct.11^th, Oct. 18^th, Oct. 25^th, Nov. 1^st, Nov. 8^th, Nov. 15^th, Nov. 22^nd and the last class on Nov.29^th On how to make Shower Scrubs and another class on How to Make Massage Oils.

HOW TO FIND ME

I will let you know when more book signings are going on.

I can be found on Spotify, my podcast (bibletruthwarriorwomen.com), also on Riverside.FM, on my blog called (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com), My news articles on (carmenhansen@substack.com), Life Coaching site to schedule an appointment with me on (paperbell.me/bible-truth-warrior-women-life -coach.com). You can find me on (christianfaithpublishing.com), on my Author page to buy my book or read my Press Release.

MY SOCIAL MEDIA SITES

On Facebook, Instagram, Telegram and Linked in.

BIBLE TEACHING CLASSES

Please check them out. They have helped me get through this process of stepping out and be bolder in Christ. I enjoy Women of Faith classes, Proverb 31 Women classes.

LIST OF MY BUSINESSES

1. Carmen’s Visual Effects store #1 and #2 on my Blog at (bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com). I make all kinds of body products such as body butters, massage oils, body scrubs, lip and cuticle butter with mango butter and etc. There is a way to buy my body products online or call me to buy. Take a look if you’d like. It’s always good to self-care yourself.
2. (My Artwork you can find in card form on my Blog called bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com).
3. I take photos of nature and animals. I’ve been doing this business for a long time now. I am a birder.
4. I am a Certified Life Coach. Bible Truth Warrior Women Life Coaching. Call me at 360-880-4217 or on my email at (writercarmenhansen@bibletruthwarriordevotionals.com). Check out my new platform online called (paperbell.me/bible-truth-warrior-women-life-coach,com)
5. Bible Truth Warrior Daughter in Christ Book. I am selling my first book independently.

I am praying for you all! Thank you for subscribing to my newsletter. I hope that it will encourage you to know you’re not alone.

Jesus of Nazareth spoke words that have echoed through centuries, challenging believers and non-believers alike. His sayings sometimes comforting, often challenging, and occasionally puzzling continue to shape our understanding of faith, love, and human relationships. These fifteen powerful statements from Yeshua still ignite conversation and deep reflection in our modern world.

1. Love Your Enemies

“Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you.” These radical words flip our natural instincts upside down. Most of us struggle even to be kind to people who annoy us!

Yeshua wasn’t suggesting we simply tolerate those who wrong us. He demanded active compassion toward them a revolutionary concept in his time and ours.

This teaching challenges us to consider: is true strength found in retaliation or in the courage to show love when it’s least deserved?

2. Judge Not

“Judge not, that you be not judged.” Few realize how frequently this saying gets misused in modern culture. The statement doesn’t prohibit all forms of discernment or moral evaluation.

Instead, Jesus warned against self-righteous, hypocritical judgment the kind that sees others’ flaws while ignoring our own. He followed this with talk of logs in eyes, highlighting the absurdity of our selective vision.

The challenge remains: can we evaluate behaviors without condemning people?

3. The First Shall Be Last

“Many who are first will be last, and the last first.” These words upend our status-obsessed world. Jesus repeatedly challenged conventional hierarchies, suggesting Yeshua’s kingdom operates by different rules.

The wealthy, powerful, and privileged might find themselves surprised by their standing in eternal matters. Meanwhile, the overlooked, marginalized, and humble could discover unexpected honor.

This saying confronts our ambitions: are we climbing social ladders that ultimately lead nowhere important?

4. Turn the Other Cheek

“If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also.” Far from promoting passivity, Jesus was teaching nonviolent resistance. In his cultural context, turning the other cheek forced the aggressor to treat you as an equal.

This wasn’t about becoming a doormat. It was about maintaining dignity while refusing to mirror an opponent’s violence.

5. The Rich Young Ruler

“It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter God’s kingdom.” This statement shocked Jesus’ listeners and still rattles us today.

After a wealthy man couldn’t part with possessions to follow him, Jesus highlighted how material attachment creates spiritual barriers. His hyperbole of the camel and needle emphasized the impossibility of divided loyalties.

The question lingers: what possessions possess us, preventing fuller devotion to higher purposes?

6. Blessed Are the Peacemakers

“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” Among Jesus’ Beatitudes, this one stands out for its active nature. He wasn’t blessing peace-lovers or peace-wishers but peacemakers.

Creating harmony requires rolling up sleeves and entering conflict zones with reconciliation as the goal. Jesus elevated this difficult work to family resemblance with God himself.

In our divided world, this teaching asks: are we contributing to fragmentation or actively building bridges between opposing sides?

7. I Am the Way

“I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” These words spark intense debate in our pluralistic society. Jesus made an exclusive claim about access to God.

Followers see this as beautiful assurance a clear path forward. Critics view it as problematic exclusivity in our diverse world.

The statement forces consideration: was Yeshua making an arrogant claim, or was he, as Christians believe, simply stating his unique identity and purpose?

8. The Greatest Commandment

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind. And love your neighbor as yourself.” When asked to identify the most important commandment, Jesus brilliantly distilled hundreds of religious rules into this dual love mandate.

He connected vertical devotion to God with horizontal compassion for others. Neither exists properly without the other.

The simplicity feels deceptive because fulfilling these loves demands our entire being. Do we compartmentalize our faith, or does it integrate all dimensions of our lives?

9. Forgive Seventy Times Seven

“Forgive not seven times, but seventy-seven times.” When Peter thought he was being generous suggesting forgiveness seven times, Jesus multiplied that number dramatically. His point wasn’t mathematical but transformational.

Kingdom people don’t keep forgiveness ledgers. They develop forgiving character that reflects God’s unlimited mercy.

This challenges our tendency to nurse grudges and keep score of wrongs. The question remains: have we accepted forgiveness while withholding it from others?

10. My God, Why Have You Forsaken Me?

“My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” Jesus’ cry from the cross reveals the depth of his suffering. Quoting Psalm 22, he expressed the anguish of divine separation—something beyond physical pain.

For believers, this moment represents Yeshua experiencing the ultimate consequence of sin: separation from God. He felt abandoned so we never would be.

His vulnerable question gives voice to human suffering and validates our own questions during dark times.

11. You Must Be Born Again

“You must be born again.” Speaking to Nicodemus, a religious leader, Jesus declared that external religion wasn’t enough. Spiritual rebirth a complete inner transformation was necessary.

This mysterious concept confused Nicodemus and still puzzles many today. Yeshua compared this spiritual birth to wind: invisible yet powerfully evident in its effects.

The saying challenges both religious and non-religious alike: is external compliance enough, or does authentic spirituality require heart transformation?

12. I Thirst God Running

“I thirst.” Among Jesus’ final words, this simple statement reveals his complete humanity. The Creator of oceans experienced desperate physical need.

Theologians note the irony: he who offered living water to others now lacked even basic hydration. This vulnerable moment connects Jesus to every person who has experienced deprivation.

Beyond physical meaning, his words suggest spiritual reality too his deep desire for connection with humanity, his longing for us even amid his suffering.

13. Let the Little Children Come

“Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them.” When disciples tried shooing away children as unimportant distractions, Jesus firmly corrected them. In a culture where children lacked status, his welcome was revolutionary.

He went further, declaring children exemplars of faith models for adults to imitate. Their simple trust and openness apparently demonstrated qualities essential for spiritual life.

This teaching confronts our achievement-oriented society: do we value productivity and status more than childlike receptivity?

14. Take Up Your Cross

“Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves, take up their cross, and follow me.” Jesus didn’t promise his followers comfort or prosperity. Instead, he invited them to a path of sacrifice.

His original audience understood crosses weren’t jewelry but instruments of death. He called followers to die to self-interest and embrace sacrificial living.

This counters prosperity-focused spirituality, asking instead: are we willing to embrace discomfort and sacrifice for something greater than personal gain?

15. I Am Among You as One Who Serves

“I am among you as one who serves.” After washing his disciples’ feet, a slave’s task Jesus redefined leadership. While worldly leaders lord authority over others, Yeshua embodied servant leadership.

His kingdom inverts power structures: greatness comes through humble service, Not Domination.

This revolutionary concept challenges both religious and secular leadership models. Are we seeking positions to be served, or opportunities to serve others? Do we have a relationship with Yeshua or just plain religious? I know I have a trusting relationship with my Lord and Savior, Yeshua Ha Mashiach.