
My husband just had his 60th birthday. Crazy uh? Well, I think so only because I’m following him in 5yrs from now. We had fun, I took him to get a pedicure. Yes, I know like I said we’re getting older. He just wanted to go hang out. So, we did, we went to Harbor Freight store. He looked around for a long while. He found a few little things. Then I told him I’ve been wanting to buy a roller creeper, it’s like a scooter for working under the car on. It goes over rocks and gravel. He actually used it the other day. He likes it a lot. I’m so thankful.
The other blessing for my hubby was that our son called, and he got to talk to him, face time for hours. We both miss our son. As we’re getting older, we really thought at least one of our young adult children would be not far when we need them. But my son had been with us helping us for years. I know that so, it’s time for him to have a life of his own. We just miss him. As my husband has healed emotionally and physically more, I thought our son and him would hang out more but that won’t happen now, maybe some other time. We have resigned to knowing our young adult children have a life separate from us and they might share a few things with us and that’s it.
As I’m getting older, I have realized that I have a voice more than I used to. I do hope my son will see and hear that from me. I will keep believing that my son will come to visit. I do like writing my books, doing art projects, doing podcasts for women and teaching the Word of God to women. It’s been an experience I never thought I would have time to do. Because of my careers before. I’m now just trying to be obedient to Yeshua and trusting Him to keep working in me and in my husband and in my son. Life is strange as it’s turning. Have you seen what I’m talking about?
So, my hubby and I are walking closer to Yeshua/Jesus individually and together. Oh, it hasn’t been easy at all. We are both still recovering from past hurts and hang ups. We both talked to our marriage counselor last visit, and we all agreed to start in the book “Boundaries in Marriage”. To start understanding boundaries together. A healthier technique. I know most of us never learned boundaries in our families. I have read all of the boundary’s books over and over again. And they helped me a lot. I got to share with others. I do wonder how well, my hubby and I wilI discuss it with our counselor. Thank you for your prayers and care for us.